I go through phases,(not sure if I'm alone here) where I get tired of random sex. Then I go through phases where i want it, and it's exciting again. Recently, I decided i was gonna work on my career, my boat, and the gym for a few months and not deal with women; however, it's proven to be a little challenging.

The more that I try to push them away, the more they want to stay, the harder they try, the more annoying and stressful it all becomes. They'll even start showing up at my house, and that shit gets messy. Before you ask, I always make it extra clear from day #1 that I don't want anything more than a hookup and casual fun outings. I don't like to lead anyone on for sex, I don't believe that's right. After a few girls kept causing me grief, I thought about how to do this more effectively with other girls and avoid this drama all together.

I did exactly what TRP says not to do. I began acting beta, and over bearing. Tons of pics(selfies), text messages(saying sweet things), calling(just to say hi and that i was bored). It only took two days of doing this with two girls and they started acting distant(shocker).

When they started acting distant, I asked, "what's wrong, don't you like me?" They responded with, "I just want to be friends." I agreed and told them I respect their decision, and to let me know if they change their mind.

This is super fucking twisted, I know. But, it worked amazingly! I'm honestly going to use this every single time I have a bad lay, or I don't want a girl to get attached. You don't have to be a dick, you don't have to hurt anyone's feelings, no drama needed.

So for anyone who truly doesn't give a shit, and wants to get rid of some girls, do this, avoid the drama. It works. I will say this isn't needed for all chicks. There are some girls I hook up with that are super mentally stable and are ok with casual. They don't get attached, which is great. I can tell those I need some time for me, and they'll be fine with it.