Yep. AWALT no matter what you do.

AcidMal · 2016-10-21T23:31:30+00:00

Ive had all that shit happen in relationships except the rape (and im not gonna touch that with a ten foot pole.). We all know AWALT but TRP tends to frequently make women out to be the devil when in reality they are just women... What is important to understand is that words are just words, no matter what love a woman professes, they are just words. Temporarily induced through emotion, words. It does not matter if its a woman's love, a business agreement, a promise, a compliment, a jab or whatever else. Never rely on anyone but yourself in life, and especially never rely on words. That is all.

Pewdielockz · 2016-10-21T21:45:36+00:00

never stick your dick in crazy
to live better, just don't hang with any girl who is fucked up in a way like this. For years I only knew girls with psychological problems, because they often where the only ones i could meet online. after a few years of more distance, lifting and a new social circle, I saw how manipulating these creatures were. Just make yourself a favor and stop it.

JJMcgray · 2016-10-22T05:24:36+00:00

It's always funny when a chick goes after your doppelgänger.

I just look at them and they know. The guy sees me and he knows. No words will be said, but the message is clear.

"She really wants me. You're just a cheap knockoff. Live with that."

But yeah AWALT yada yada.

185poundsofhatredWIP · 2016-10-22T09:27:58+00:00

"Did a police report and all that so yes it was legit."

Rite.

hawkeaglejesus · 2016-10-22T16:56:30+00:00

I get the sense that you're feeling hurt, and you're allowed that much, but after you get that out of your system go back and recap everything and realize that everything that happened was your fault.

You chose her, you invested in her, you made her feel like a special snowflake, and you stayed with her for 4.5 years despite several gigantic red flags. At any point you could've said, "You know, I could go fuck a girl who's not a suicidal clingy wreck with like 1/10th of the effort" but instead you chose to stay with this girl and got oneitis for her.

wonderful innocent beautiful virgin who had been abused a lot in her youth

used comfort to really build up her esteem

Basically took care of her financially cause I make good money while she was in college

In fact I did save her life.

Go super comfort mode and start reading rape survival material. Rebuild her esteem. Sex resumes after a few months. Get called her savior, her hero, she will be with me forever, etc.

Sounds like you went BP LTR for this broken girl and played the role of captain save a hoe when you should've dropped her needy ass, or at the very least spun other plates.

She branch swung after setting me up with the most fucked up ending ever. Shit has made me pretty mental.

Your fault for thinking she was yours. Your turn lasted 4.5 years, she branch swung as soon as she saw a guy less beta than you. The fact that you're hurt by her actions isn't her fault, it's yours for giving a fuck in the first place.

Call her out. She turns ice cold. Tells me she doesn't owe me shit and those cards and words in the journal mean nothing.

Because they don't, she doesn't, and you were a fool for trying to negotiate desire.

lozboss · 2016-10-22T10:23:34+00:00

OP, I commend you.

But I share one hard lesson I've learned- YOU CAN'T FIX ANYONE (don't even try).

When you see red flags- avoid, don't be the Saviour. You may not like to think your actions were but in a way they were.

IWillBeTheHope · 2016-10-22T16:51:31+00:00

I don't know. Maybe I have higher standards for dating than most people, but I wouldn't even be dating a girl that A, called me daddy, like wtf? And B, one who would act like such a baby and go drink herself to death at a party because she was "Livid". It sounds like she's still in high school. Sorry dude, but I think you should have seen this stuff coming from a mile away with her. You should be rejoicing the fact that you're not with her. Go and take on the world now and be a badass without some child crying at your knees.

nutnics · 2016-10-22T03:19:04+00:00

This girl was broken from the beginning. You did what you could homie. No harm no foul on your part as per your description. She's a never ending downward spiral though and it's best your pull your head out of your candy covered cock ring and see the truth of it. Women like this are Tazmanian Devils spinning chaos with eyes closed.

Conceited-Monkey · 2016-10-22T01:34:25+00:00

I am sorry you went through this. Realistically, if over the space of a week she went from one extreme to another, it is pretty safe to assume that there is a whole pile of crazy mixed in with the branch swinging. It will hurt but you will recover quicker than you think.

sonder_one · 2016-10-22T03:53:50+00:00

Sorry man. You did well, but you can only control you.

evilkenevil · 2016-10-22T10:32:50+00:00

Old guy here...Throughout the decades I've known exes, currents, sisters, friends wives, friends girlfriends, cousins, gramma, and my mom. Yes indeed they are ALL the same.

villa_gotaha · 2016-10-22T01:47:58+00:00

Women are emotional short term thinkers. You were her Mario, but not her Luigi. Not her Link, nor her Captain Falcon. Just one of her "heroes".

After the rape, she was likely reminded of her past abuse. I promise you she was always like that and that the rape was the breaking point that brought out her real personality to life. It is depressing to watch.

I have witnessed this erratic type of behavior from family members. My aunt wasted her entire life trying to fill an empty gap. Jumping through men who all thought they'd save her. None of them could accomplish that.

Women can't be saved. Because women don't even know what they want.

bbmc7gm6fm · 2016-10-22T15:27:53+00:00

OP is merely venting and provides an AWALT example. He is in no way aware of the red pill knowledge or The Iron Rules of Tomassi for that matter.

RMK24 · 2016-10-22T17:37:32+00:00

I feel bad, but man some of you guys are real dumb fucks to get into these situations.

Ou-tis · 2016-10-22T04:48:31+00:00

When a girl go drunk at a party with strangers, she is too irresponsibile to be with. Man you need nothing bad to her and I'm glad for you that now you are free from a difficult person.

MattyAnon · 2016-10-22T15:41:29+00:00

The minute my frame broke because oh yknow, my dad is dying and I start crying a lot, in front of her.

Briffault's law. It's not optional. Women are not supportive of men.

trippinallday · 2016-10-22T03:14:07+00:00

What you did was noble, but unfortunately hardly anyone is deserving of the kind of treatment you gave this chick. Most people will drop their old supporters and act brand new when they get the chance, just like she did. Humans are selfish creatures.

mojo_juju · 2016-10-22T16:49:57+00:00

I've messed around with two women with baggage. Never again.

Woman 1: I was 19, she was 17. Turns out her mom was/is a meth head. Don't ask me why I got involved with this skank. Bad, bad idea. Luckily nothing too bad happened. I bailed when I realized she was basically a street-child with a regular job, trying to be normal.
Woman 2: an immigrant to the US. she was 24, I was 23. Off-and-on again relationship for 1.5 yrs or so. Her dad died when she was little. Was raised pretty poor, in a developing region. She was actually pretty sane. Just had attachment issues. Recently she hit me up to hang out (it has been about 5-6 yrs) since she decided to separate from her husband she married about 4 yrs ago. I actually like her family, but I can't afford to have her/them back in my life. Mostly b/c I don't have time, and I don't want to get attached. (I have this weird soft spot for vulnerable/semi-vulnerable people where I want to help them out)

... A couple yrs ago I went on a Tinder date with a crazy.

We had some drinks at a bar to introduce ourselves. Then I banged her in a nearby bathroom. (one of those "one-at-a-time" bathrooms, actually downstairs from the bar, in a separate business which had door open to their side-hallway where the bathroom was). We had a couple more drinks. At the end of the night, she handed me $7 and told me it was for her drinks and that she'd be right back. She had ordered about $30 of drinks or so. As had I. So, I covered my own, and told the bartender that the $7 is for her drinks, and that she would be back to pay for them.

I then waited for her reaction... She got super pissed at me for "making her pay for herself in front of her 'friends'i.e. the randoms who happened to be at the bar. I was like "So, what. " Then I drove her back to her truck, parked a couple blocks away. When she got out was when she complained to me, calling me an asshole. (Grantd, she was a little drunk). Crazy ass hooker bitch. She was pretty pissed. Didn't stop her from texting me a week later to offer me a BJ though. Bitches be crazy.

Never stick your dick in crazy

Willow-girl · 2016-10-23T02:48:11+00:00

7 months later she gets a good job at a dealership in sales making just under what I've made for years.

And then breaks up with you. Coincidence? I think not.

Next time, find a girl who can stand on her own two feet financially (ideally, one who earns more than you do, lol).

As long as you're supporting a girl, you have no way of knowing whether it's you she loves or just your money.

its_meKnightSwolaire · 2016-10-22T21:09:30+00:00

You stuck your dick in crazy for 3 years.

Auvergnat · 2016-10-22T05:53:59+00:00

You know how young kids get in complete awe at something in front of them (a toy, a spoon, a rock, a dog, doesn't matter), staring at it like it's the most amazing shit they've ever seen... and the next second their attention is taken by something else entirely.

That's how I see women now. You can find them cute and love them to death and give them the world, but don't fucking expect their "love" for you to last forever. It'll switch to the next interesting object in her field of vision like you never existed.

Spidertech500 · 2016-10-22T01:16:31+00:00

Bro.... Wow..... You're a bigger man than I

newName543456 · 2016-10-22T18:17:29+00:00

Gives me her journal she had been writing in since we met. Full of nothing but adoration, love, sexual fantasies, wedding plans, pages upon pages of thanking her for saving her life and how she could never be with anyone else because there's nobody on earth that deserves her but me. Cards to open when "you need a quickie, you're upset with me, the day we get married, the day I get pregnant, when one of us is on our deathbed"

1 week later she breaks up with me.

Call her out. She turns ice cold. Tells me she doesn't owe me shit and those cards and words in the journal mean nothing.

And we, according to BP, are supposed to believe all this emotional fluff is actually the important stuff? That once it was there for any given moment, it will be there forever and it's worth making legal commitments for the rest of your life? That whenever there are trouble, it's just "getting a little lost" and we have to fight for it as if it were our own lives?

Nonsense.

RedPillHanSolo · 2016-10-24T09:11:31+00:00

It wasn't her hooking up, it was legit. The reason she wanted to kill herself is because she was worried I'd think she's too disgusting to fuck anymore after having been through that. Did a police report and all that so yes it was legit. In fact I did save her life. Shoved my fingers down her throat making her puke up 30 Xanax chased with hard liquor. All the while she screaming at me she wants to die. Go super comfort mode and start reading rape survival material. Rebuild her esteem. Sex resumes after a few months. Get called her savior, her hero, she will be with me forever, etc.

That was not your job. Yes, you shouldn't have just walked out on her. But call cops/relatives/friends whomever.

I hope that she taught you a lesson. Just compare how you treated her, when she was fucked up (granted the whole gang rape thing was real) and how she treated you, when your father was dying and you broke down:

blames it on me for treating her like shit.

Obviously not teaching you how to live, just my 2c.

TheGodPlant · 2016-10-22T06:28:24+00:00

Women are like monkeys, they want to have a firm hold of the next branch before letting go of the current one.

CoolRunner · 2016-10-22T12:57:48+00:00

Have you considered the possibility she's on drugs, and her new guy may be supplying said drugs?

TACTICALBLONDEBIMBO · 2016-10-22T15:35:41+00:00

Wifing these hoes is not worth it

Techsus7 · 2016-10-22T04:44:17+00:00

WTF is this? It's people like you turning this in to twox. Your a Whiney little bitch...I come here to learn not read about pathetic relationships with foreseeable out comes. She branch swung to a janitor? That's fucking hilarious....I'm not positive yet on AWALT....maybe they are AWALT to you when a janitor can steal your chick. Edit: gang rape...lol. You did nothing about it besides read books on rape victims? You sure it was gang rape? You must she filed a police report! Did she let a buncha dudes fuck her and regret it? Gang rape is pretty uncommon outside of rural India and American ghettos, so which one is it? This post pisses me off.

TACTICALBLONDEBIMBO · 2016-10-22T17:34:02+00:00

Sounds like quite a few people on here are trying to turn hos/dolled up bimbos into a serious girlfriend/wife. Lol probably best not to. Quite a few of the girls that like you, and these bad bitches are going to have different "issues." If you want a supposed "good girl" from my experience youre probably going to have wife a little nerd homebody bitch who might not be a super bad bitch, or even close to top notch ass. Your little scoundrel of a bitch choosing to get wasted and supposedly getting a train ran on her..... should've ditched that ass right then and there bro.

These top notch dolled up bimbos out here who are elite and highly tactical with regards to sucking and fucking dick. They've probably had a lot of sex.....with Savage goons, Travis, Chads, etc..... Who knows what other kind of freak ass porno type shit some of these girls have done. The girl studying in the library who has no #WILDTHIGH, #NOASSATALL, etc.... she's a sure thing and has a less of a chance of being a girl who has had a lot of sex, and probably less crazy than some of this other ass out here.

The bad bitch girl that I like right now besides the fact I want to be 100 percent sure that she would say yes if I asked her out. Thats just a part of it, emotional attachment, and knowing myself and how she looks and the size of that ass I would probably fall in love with the pussy..... Once you fall in love with her pussy, she's pretty much wifing you at that point.

Title	Yep. AWALT no matter what you do.
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Date	October 21, 2016 9:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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