You aren't a good man unless you have the option to be a bad one. It's an rp lesson I learned, and hope to impart for others sake here

When push comes to shove, you need to get your hands dirty, because that virtue you set for youself won't matter if you arent around to capitalize on it. Only women can avoid things to be virtuous, we don't have the luxury, and being given femenine rules by the femenine imperative only sets us up for failure.

Abundance and options matter.

For the record, this was the cake i bought for Frenchies last day in the military. I applied these lessons when the green machine tried to chew me up, and if i hadn't, would have my own cake.