Hi ladies!

I hope all of you are doing well during this time wherever you are in the world! I’m in need of some outside perspectives on my current situation with my boyfriend [28M, Ryan].

To give a bit of backstory, my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for just over two years now (in total). We started seeing each other for around three months before I asked what he wanted/was looking for. Our conversation led to both of us continuing to see each other before we labeled our situation a relationship. It was another four months before Ryan asked me if we could be an official couple, which I enthusiastically agreed too. Up to this point, we have been in a relationship for almost a year in a half.

Our relationship has been really good and I absolutely love the guy a ton. Looking back, I’m almost happier that we had a longer period to see whether or not we would be relationship material for each other. Even up to this point, I really feel that our relationship can blossom into something more down the road here. My only little tingle of a feel that has me a bit worried/concerned is that I notice he tends to watch a lot of RP content online. Whether I have been over at his place hanging out with him on YouTube and I see his “recently viewed” videos where it’s a red pill topic or something along the lines of a content creator that puts out those kinds of videos.

I first started to notice this around the holidays (early December) of last year, when I went to say over at his place weekends and throughout the holiday. Even though I do follow this sub, I know that this is from a women’s RP lens. I understood early on when I was researching a bit of RP material that it’s much different than to what is discussed here. In fact, it’s basically leaning to another degree.

But, two weeks ago when we were hanging out, I saw that he had the married red pill tab open on his google chrome. It made me a little uncomfortable; especially, after I went through on my own time a couple of days later to read through that sub. It became clear to me early on that he didn’t just stumble upon it out of curiosity or randomly; yet, he actively watches and reads content around this.

I guess what I’m trying to ask you ladies here is - how should I approach this? Should I even bother bringing up this discussion with him? Is this a red flag? Should I confront him on this? I’m not sure if it’s worth it or not, but it made me want to ask the questions here for some insight. Do any of you ladies deal with men a part of some of these RP communities online?

Thoughts?

Thank you for reading!

EDIT: I want to thank all of you for the advice; especially, the brutally honest advice you have shared with me on this thread. I really do appreciate the support. I will defiantly approach him around this subject (and other tough ones in the future) with honesty and transparency, instead of worry and letting myself hamster around these kinds of things. Thank you all very much! I will keep you all updated at some point here.