Just sad :/

Wide-Brick · 2020-05-23T18:10:14+00:00

This is all too common. In my blue pilled days I'd see a guy with a hot girlfriend and I would think to myself, "lucky him". Red Pilled me thinks, "poor bastard".

Go your own way, gentlemen.

Rodion-Raskolnikov · 2020-05-23T19:39:26+00:00

Seen this happen to all my friends. I’m nearly 50. Believe me, if you ain’t careful this will happen to you. You’ll meet someone. Think she’s a unicorn. Fall in love. Get married. Then it all goes to shit. Trust me.

intelligence_skills · 2020-05-23T19:02:03+00:00

He is a single man with a part time nanny, and conceived a child through surrogacy.

Encrypted587 · 2020-05-23T18:11:01+00:00

she can be apart from her son for more than 5 hours, she is lazy just like the rest of them.

gtowerthrowaway · 2020-05-23T20:00:35+00:00

Stay at home wife is the hardest job.

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-05-23T19:55:11+00:00

Well, as I always say and which becomes true for everyone as well :

52% of the world's population know the reality and what's going on behind the scenes. Who are they? Simple, 51% is the women and 1% is the Red Pill men. Other men simply have their heads in some broad's ass thinking she is the one/the unicorn/love of his life or whatever the cringy terms high school nerds use.

attongirdeaux · 2020-05-23T19:09:35+00:00

At least he stays for the right reasons.

RocknR0IIa · 2020-05-23T20:12:46+00:00

Sounds like HELL to me. Poor guy. I admire his sacrifice for his son. I hope he will admire his dad someday for the sacrifice he is doing.

LotBuilder · 2020-05-23T20:41:33+00:00

Make sure your woman can support herself before committing. Most of these women like FDS are lazy, and waiting for a man to come shower them with money while they sit around and take Instagram pictures.

Rottinghere · 2020-05-23T20:49:36+00:00

This is yet more proof that a man doesn't have to die in order to see the fires of Hell.

AColonelOfTruth · 2020-05-24T01:05:32+00:00

OP forgot to post what comes next:

1) Wife feels unfulfilled, no longer gets "tingles"

2) Wife finds some Chad or Tyrone to cheat with. If OP is lucky, Chad/Tyrone is a stranger and not his best friend

3) Wife files for divorce

4) Wife takes half of OP's assets, plus large child support payments (and in many cases, alimony too,) because she's poor and has no job while OP is a strong breadwinner. The court says it's only fair that he share some of his riches

5) OP moves into a tiny cheap shithole apartment

6) OP gets 15% custody time with the kid on weekends, wife gets 85%

7) Wife turns kid against OP

8) Kid watches TV all day and gets minimal parental attention; at best eventually becomes a C-student with a mediocre job. At worst gets in to a rough crowd, becomes a dropout and goes to jail.

The end.

Harbinger-One · 2020-05-23T21:56:25+00:00

"exercise is selfish"

what the actual fuck....

br4z1l14n · 2020-05-23T18:24:52+00:00

I always flip the role and think wow, what a life.

If I, as a man, had the alternative reality opportunity to stay at home, even with a toddler. I'd take it. All the shit I could get done. Projects around the house, cool dinners I could cook, maybe a little side business/hobby. So many possibilities.

And yes, I've taken care of toddlers for extended periods. They're actually not as bad as it sounds based on every woman I've heard talk about them lol. Some can be, sure. But that is rare. If you know how to entertain them and keep them busy you've won the battle. Plus, after a couple more years they can become a helper with some projects.

Confined09 · 2020-05-23T21:05:51+00:00

Dude needs to sack up and put this bitch in her place or get out.

U-94 · 2020-05-23T20:14:03+00:00

You just wait til she wants to go back to school.

CommanderOfTheDeath · 2020-05-23T22:58:35+00:00

"Exercising is selfish?" That's a nice way to say "I am an undesirable bitch and don't want you to work on your SMV or else you could attract someone who actually isn't a useless piece of trash like me."

SearchlightS0uL · 2020-05-23T21:10:32+00:00

Things went dramatically wrong for Kevin in sales.

IceyBear988 · 2020-05-24T01:00:51+00:00

Not only not trusting women, DON'T BELIEVE MARRIED FUCKS WHO TELLS YOU TO GET MARRIED! They're so deep down the well they just hope someone else shares the misery with their crab mentality.

LotBuilder · 2020-05-23T23:56:56+00:00

That wasn’t too far off from my marriage after each kid. I would usually go to the gym at night from 5-8 with the kids. I was the guy dragging out the workout as slowly as possible, then hitting the spa and sauna. I basically did whatever it took to get away from her constant complaints. She wanted a third kid and cried when I said she made parenting look so hard that I’m not doing it. Now I have my kids 50/50 and we have a blast without any nagging in the background.

soundmixer14 · 2020-05-23T20:49:58+00:00

"Change their mind" fucking THIS.

joltek · 2020-05-23T21:35:22+00:00

The kid is not his either.

Freedom-INC · 2020-05-23T22:59:53+00:00

Sounds like a toxic place to bring a kid up, and toxic for the husband. He needs to man up and leave. Can still look after the son, sounds like the wife wouldnt want him anyway.

z31fanatic · 2020-05-24T00:45:40+00:00

Weak fuck needs to cut off the parasite.

prince0verit · 2020-05-24T01:50:33+00:00

He dug his own grave putting up with her shit from the beginning. Once she got her anchor baby she knew she had her payday coming and it was too late.

Exercise is selfish. Bitch who asked you for your opinion on what I do?

2020-05-23T20:20:15+00:00

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Savixe · 2020-05-23T22:38:20+00:00

This man is at the same time a poor victim and a motherfucking HERO.

He's resigning himself to be a cog into the "machine", a mindless drone without any time for personal endeavors just to give him son a proper raising and a father figure.

I really hope once his son becomes an independent and productive adult (all thanks to him, and lets hope his mother dont poison his mind with libtard propaganda) this great man can enjoy a bit of his life and tell this old hag to fuck off.

2020-05-23T23:28:55+00:00

Even animals have motherly instincts. This wife isn't a mother.

O_continente · 2020-05-24T00:29:16+00:00

This is hell on earth

ACE-JHN · 2020-05-24T01:05:57+00:00

My condolences to him

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2020-05-24T04:34:37+00:00

What's especially sad is that the woman genuinely thinks her day to day is as tough if not tougher than her husband's day to day.

downwardlyspiraling · 2020-05-24T06:33:35+00:00

40 year old male, no kids, no wife, I...

Wake up when I want. Do what I want. Keep all my money. Smile constantly.

Unfigured · 2020-05-24T10:22:13+00:00

Power without responsibility or accountability almost always corrupts. Women largely refuse to accept either of those things, so they're now corrupt. And with them, so is our democratic system.

And that's just the macro level. Then you have women like the OP's wife, who have huge cultural, legal and financial power due to being a woman and a wife. In the tiny communism-for-two that is their marriage, she has all the power and he has none.

And the longer he remains with her, the more of his income she will chew up and the less prepared he'll be for what's still to come. I don't really know what he should do though. She's got their son as a government-appointed hostage. And she doesn't sound like mother-of-the-year material, but you know she'll still go for primary custody anyway in order to get child-support and get a taste of that sweet "single mothers are the bravest and noblest humans ever" glory.

It's a tough call, which is why MGTOW focus more on avoiding the problem rather than getting through the problem. Ambulances at the bottom of the cliff, since Big Tech won't let us put up warning signs at the top of the cliff. I hope you do understand though that your marriage has already been mortally wounded, OP. Now it's just bleeding out.

LogicAllArround · 2020-05-24T14:52:55+00:00

This should be a mandatory read for all the dumbfucks who are 25 and go like: "you know what, I should get married".

(not just 25, but any age for that matter)

laptopdragon · 2020-05-24T02:28:15+00:00

So, if there's any way to reply to the OP then perhaps give them this probability.

If she's that irrational when her husband is around, imagine how crappy she is when it's only her and the infant. Sounds like a huge power trip, mental instabilities and high probability of abuse towards the kid.

Suggest to get a nanny-cam and monitor it 24/7 and be prepared to take action before the kid becomes permanently damaged.

Also, probably have to watch the kid forever too b/c of mental illness that runs in her genes.

JakeThaGreat001 · 2020-05-24T03:09:13+00:00

I admire that he is making the sacrifice for his son. But he needs to let his son know not to get married. Make it so he doesn’t have to suffer as well

mzelbasha · 2020-05-24T03:14:40+00:00

my advice for him is set cameras in the house and keep all the recorder just in case when the shit happens

Zombeflandrs · 2020-05-24T03:33:54+00:00

This sounds very similar to my cousins situation. He isn't the same person anymore. Its depressing to see him so defeated.

2020-05-24T03:51:17+00:00

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Villexdf · 2020-05-24T03:59:02+00:00

This is just tragic and We dont even know how the wife treats the toddler behind closed doors

br4z1l14n · 2020-05-24T04:02:25+00:00

He should get his shit and move. Out of the country if necessary, is simple.

InformalCriticism · 2020-05-24T04:21:16+00:00

This is way too real.

2020-05-24T04:24:12+00:00

Inherently yeah exercise is a little selfish, but being a Thot is more so...

sawyer94117 · 2020-05-24T06:14:46+00:00

The one thing you would hope you can count on is childrearing. But women aren't expected to do anything, someone has to, so it's "man up", shame as a whip.

When someone who is selfish is telling you not to selfish that is someone to ignore.

Sounds like you have two kids. Men must grow, women find it repressive.

themenacehimself · 2020-05-24T07:34:06+00:00

If he were Goku about to launch the Spirit Bomb, I’d give him my energy..

Poor guy...

3rdiguy · 2020-05-24T08:49:21+00:00

I remind myself more now when I see a guy with a so-called “attractive “ woman- I really don’t want those problems, I want peace & tranquility

Kypris2 · 2020-05-24T08:50:51+00:00

I give it 2 years max before she decides she can do better and gives him the "I'm not happy" talk

Iperovic · 2020-05-24T10:16:15+00:00

She's drinking and smoking weed in the same house while she's with your kid? Gather physical evidence and report her for child abuse

Gerzy_CZ · 2020-05-24T11:49:00+00:00

Damn I kinda feel sorry for this guy, this is just pure hell...

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-05-24T11:55:52+00:00

wtf...exercise is toxic?

markus_brutus · 2020-05-24T13:41:52+00:00

I wanna feel bad but how do you allow yourself to get to that point. Men need to learn how to be men again.

2020-05-24T16:28:48+00:00

He doesn't have to listen to his wife complain. Tell her he isn't interested and please shut up. Why can't we have boundaries? If you're talking is bothering me, that's one of my boundaries; it begins when your mouth opens.

tsundokume · 2020-05-24T20:05:16+00:00

Smoking weed and drinking while having a toddler in your house from 2 pm to 12 am is fucking awful. He needs to just put up an ultimatum. Either you pick up the slack or I'm taking the kid away because you're trying to live your life like a 18 year old when you're a fucking mom. Act like it.

BrizzLatency · 2020-05-25T06:17:39+00:00

Damn man he's a real good dude im sure but he has to leave her.

Title	Just sad :/
Author	ekse1
Upvotes	925
Comments	123
Date	May 23, 2020 5:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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