Caught oneitis for a plate that's NOT relationship material. Despite my logic of knowing she'd never be a halfway decent LTR I can't get the idea out if my head. Any suggestions?

GiraffeOnWheels · 2020-05-22T22:39:11+00:00

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alphakari · 2020-05-23T00:08:19+00:00

You don't believe you're worth a better bitch.

drsherbert · 2020-05-23T00:25:44+00:00

Think of yourself as the sun ☀️You shine the light.The women in your life are your planets. Keep your planets in orbit. Sometimes you gotta move mercury out to Pluto or maybe just to Mars. Depends how bad your oneitis is. You have to balance your solar system.

AlpacaStrap · 2020-05-22T23:40:37+00:00

You need to fuck other girls and get on your purpose. A plate is a god damn plate.

You should never be looking for an LTR. You let it come to you. You should never need a woman’s companionship.

You have a void from a lack of purpose and you’re looking to fill it with a woman.

Get on your god damn purpose. Make that bread

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-05-23T01:40:34+00:00

Oneitis has everything to do with self-sabotage and learned-helplessness.

This is the same type of impulse as a child who pulls all the pots and pans out of the bottom cupboard, bangs around, then sits and sobs in the mess he made all over the kitchen, to try to get the attention of his mother figure. Because you're afraid of being left out in the cold.

"if I can just get Mamma's attention some more it'll be alright.

Stop sabotaging yourself. Stop acting helpless. You're a grow-ass man and your mother figure is gone. You left home for good a long time ago. Your plate is little more than a dramatic self-destructive child herself.

lolomotif12 · 2020-05-23T00:31:59+00:00

Why isn't she LTR material, give more details?

Just find more plates to spin, you probably don't have any hence why you dont have abundance. You are developing oneitis for her because you have no other options and you're pussy whipped because you have nothing better to compare with.

BIitheFooI · 2020-05-23T00:56:48+00:00

Spend less time with her. If she’s already on the way out, begin to do fun things on your own or with buds, or other chicks.

If you still have her, just enjoy it but make sure you make memories and spend time with other women or friends. She’ll fuck it up and make herself unattractive eventually. They always do. It’s just a matter of time, unfortunately.

It’s okay to want to be more and commit. It’s in our nature. But they’ll eventually disappoint in a way that slams you back down to reality.

Rkingpin · 2020-05-22T23:11:07+00:00

Keep fucking and inevitably the garbage hoe inside her will reveal itself, opening your eyes to the true depths of her slutiness. This will open your eyes whereas ghosting will always make you wonder "what if"

Snowboard18 · 2020-05-23T01:03:52+00:00

If its fucking badly with your head, you could always just ghost her even though its a hard thing to do.

IlluminatiHunter666 · 2020-05-23T03:16:27+00:00

holy water

IXseed · 2020-05-23T04:36:52+00:00

Listen to your logic. Ain't no room for feelings in the pimp game. Oneitis is from feelings.

NobodyP1 · 2020-05-22T22:48:42+00:00

Been their done that got the t-shirt for it. Don’t ever talk to her again, don’t listen to Music that reminds you of her, work on yourself, alone with everything red pill talks about.

longjeep2005 · 2020-05-23T01:22:58+00:00

Fuck other girls.

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-23T06:43:34+00:00

You are addicted to her presence in your life.

Keep yourself busy with other plates and as time passes the thoughts of her will fade out.

2020-05-23T07:38:27+00:00

She’s not yours its just your turn

kclanton80 · 2020-05-22T23:51:03+00:00

A plate is only a plate of you are spinning multiples. Feelings usually develop when you don't have other women, and you start spending a little too much time with one....spending the night, seeing her multiple times a week etc..

Now that you have feels for her, there is no easy way out. I would advise watching some red pill content to make her flaws even more obvious, and to keep you in a Correct mindset. Aside from that, look to meet other women. I know it's hard these days.

The feelings probably won't leave until a while after she does...it sucks...I have been there. We all have. If you really know she ain't worth shit at all, sometimes it's better to cut her rather than have her cut you, or do some ho type shit that really ends up hurting you.

2020-05-22T22:34:57+00:00

Block. No contact.

SteveSan82 · 2020-05-23T04:32:21+00:00

Read The Rational Male.

Queasy-Track · 2020-05-23T09:24:56+00:00

aghh, youth; enjoy the feeling, it happens not often in a lifetime.

ImBiButClaimImStr8 · 2020-05-22T22:37:53+00:00

Damn I'm in the same situation and don't know what to do as well

Why she isn't LTR material? What are her red flags?

tenrag3899 · 2020-05-22T22:59:34+00:00

I'm sure we've literally all been there. We've all also more than likely made the mistake of ignoring the red flags. I know I have before. Save yourself the trouble. It ends bad and you know it already, cut contact and work on yourself.

legitniga · 2020-05-23T00:20:08+00:00

Just date her for a while for the vibe. It’ll probably help u learn ur lesson.

Gtrplyr3838 · 2020-05-22T23:10:33+00:00

You probably have to walk away. The ones that give you mind-blowing sex can be hard to leave. Been there and done that. I found that I could only dump them after I was completely fucked out. If I was the least bit horny, I would go right back there.

Caught oneitis for a plate that's NOT relationship material. Despite my logic of knowing she'd never be a halfway decent LTR I can't get the idea out if my head. Any suggestions?

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