didn't believe in AWALT, now i'm convinced ...

XGHOW · 2020-05-27T07:06:46+00:00

Strong principals, mad respect.

TheLawandOrder · 2020-05-27T06:38:58+00:00

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2020-05-27T07:06:42+00:00

So fucking proud of you bro. That is keeping the pimp hand strong. And I love that you have standards and once you saw the hoe you didn't try and change her. You took the world in as it was and made decision that was best for you. Gotta have self respect.

Ocjab · 2020-05-27T07:01:46+00:00

Never look back dude. Because this shit will happen every time. Just in different ways.

They always try to walk all over you. And the moment they get the chance to, they will disrespect you for having a weak moment.

DerdyG · 2020-05-27T07:12:44+00:00

...i found one of the legendary unicorn.

Unicorns are not legendary, they are mythical.

SwordMasterLink79 · 2020-05-27T09:30:04+00:00

Ghost her. Leave her messages on read, without responding.

I once made the mistake of trying to kindly call it quits with a woman. I got nothing but hatefull responses from her.

Due to the light-switch effect ( https://archive.li/Lz9Ox ) she will rationalize that you abused her anyhow. So just don't bother once you have determined to walk away.

gtowerthrowaway · 2020-05-27T07:06:24+00:00

If she wants to go on Onlyfans, I'll bet good money that she was taking side-cock.

RockmanXX · 2020-05-27T10:10:09+00:00

look, i'm sorry but i don't have any interest in sharing intimacy with someone estimating her nudity is worth 10€, so bye

CHAD move, Respect. If only rest of men on earth had standards.

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-05-27T10:40:36+00:00

She probably listens to her loser female friend. Smoke weed and sell nudes.

boltjamison · 2020-05-27T08:51:03+00:00

The chameleon has many colors

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-05-27T09:36:14+00:00

So I(31) been dating non-exclusively this girl (24) for about 2 years now, and though i'm still tilting my plates and dating other girls

This is how you deal with women. You date/fuck non exclusively and do not let go of your abundance of options. Always remember, if you have to date a girl even non exclusively, be sure to spin at least one plate alongside. In that way, you atleast have a slight chance of avoiding oneitis. Plus, having options regarding women makes you see her logically, stoically and indifferently without inserting emotional bullshit. This, is how a man should be. Not with that high school nerd nonsense about "lovey dovey romantic soul mate" and all that shit. That's for nerd idiots.

What you are doing, is how it should be done. Good going, OP.

i really thought this one was different

Really now?

Anyways, why did you think so? Because she behaved a little bit different from others?

isn't whoring for attention on social media

Nah. Thats a lie. Thats a clear lie. Nope. No girl out of nowhere decides to be a only fans whore if she does not do attention whoring.

mostly cricital about the feminist movement

Let me tell you the real story here : she is mostly critical about certain aspects of the feminist movement that does not benefit her or her future actions/gains. It does not mean she is smart and is different than other girls. It means she is smart and clever enough to project what she wants you to see.

while still retaining a few feminist ideas, but hey, no one is perfect ...

Of course no one is perfect. But no one needs to be perfect in order to see how bs the feminist movement is. As i said previously, she likea certain aspects of the movement because those have the potential to benefit her. She is critical about only one thing : the cost benefit analysis related to feminist movement, her life and you.

that i found one of the legendary unicorn.

Honestly speaking, all I can see is a woman wearing a false facade to make you see what you want to see. I have been with such girls before(no not commited or LTRs, just casual). Maybe I am naive, but considering the fact that I am always right about women, I dont think I am naive.

She wants to sell nudes on onlyporn.... I stick to my principles

Yes. Splendid move. Thats what you do when the girl you date/fuck cross boundaries.

Whether its a casual fling or a serious relationship, each and every relationship begins with unspoken boundaries in it. The man leads, the woman follows. The man makes it clear that "this is how I want it to be, this is how my principles are and this is how I follow the same rules as well". Now, if she follows, good for her. If she breaks even one boundary, you soft next or hard next her immediately. Dont negotiate, dont hesitate to put boundaries and most importantly, dont fall for the second chance bullshit. Once she breaks a boundary, she is gone. Hard next and move on. Thats how you deal with women. You have options. You have boundaries and most importantly you have a life to live. Remember, you are the prize not her. A lot of problems that men face in dating is because they undervalue themselves and overvalue the woman they are with.

note that she was actually sending me pics of her in lingerie or whatever but no nudes because she's "not this type of girl"

That's a straightforward disrespect towards you. She refuses to send you nudes but is ready to show them to others. Thats like showing you a middle finger. Good job throwing the garbage out. A woman who disrespects is not even fuck material, let along being a unicorn.

i just told her straight " look, i'm sorry but i don't have any interest in sharing intimacy with someone estimating her nudity is worth 10€, so bye. "

Good response. But keep it short next time. Show some IDGAF attitude with you response is what I mean. Like : I dont date digital whores. Or even better, no response and slowly cut off all contact and go B.I.G., Block, Ignore, Ghost. My preferred style is a last fuck mixed with no response and walking out silently without saying anything.

As for being sad, I dont see the reason for that. I mean, you have options, life and other things which are already in their place. She is at best a temporary passenger in your journey.

Unicorns are just a fantasy. The idealised version of a woman that a man has in his head, is a false image of a woman. There is no such woman in real life. At best, you will find one who will pretend to be like that.

Stop investing and stop thinking of a woman as unicorn just because her behavior is kinda different than others. Try to rationalize her behavior. It will help you to reduce/eliminate the investment you end up making in her which will make you immune to oneitis.

Trust me mate, oneitis is more dangerous than the most dangerous drug on this planet.

SilverGryphon · 2020-05-27T09:26:19+00:00

Based Chad.

mrbill1234 · 2020-05-27T10:42:22+00:00

A bit like rabid dogs - they can switch on you at any moment. Typically this happens after you get married though - and they have you by the balls.

Upstairs_Towel · 2020-05-27T08:34:36+00:00

Mad respect I stay far away from women because I don't wanna fool myself... this is the kind of girl I would have given a shot if any at all. Thankfully im socially awkward and introverted

redditormaster797 · 2020-05-27T08:31:23+00:00

You are a stronger man than I am! But at least you LL always be able to get nudes from her for 10 bucks 🤣🤣

AurelianWay · 2020-05-27T10:41:40+00:00

Did she know that you still dated other girls while you were banging her? If the answer is yes, then why were you surprised that she was an AWALT?

You were expecting to find a unicorn in a stable of degenerates. You go your own way however you please brother but you need to manage your expectations better.

It's obvious from your post that she struck a chord on you emotionally. I can relate but the bottom line is an AWALT is an AWALT is an AWALT. There are no such things as female unicorns.

Mgtow_troaway · 2020-05-27T12:55:08+00:00

I dont think you have the correct assessment on why she did that, and it'll slow you down in the future.

Women are fully aware of the degeneracy/purism spectrum, but where they position themselves has to do with what they are trying to achieve. She'll be purist to snag a guy, and degenerate to drive him away. She'll instinctively fine tune it to his expectations (or his frustrations), it's an unconscious process for many of them, especially for young hot girls.

The reason you should leave her is because she's playing that game, not because she wasn't a unicorn. They're never unicorns.

You'll save yourself a lot of time in the future if you can spot the game, rather than wasting months or years as you wait for them to get tired of unicorning you.

Haha but if you do that, you'd see they all play that game, ...and you'll end up MGTOW.

ProcedurallyCreated · 2020-05-27T10:41:17+00:00

Sad thing is I'll do the same if I were she. Trustworthy relationships are no more, if they ever were.

Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-05-27T11:27:57+00:00

The fact that you lost your temper over her thottery should have been an emotional alarm ringing in your head to indicate that this woman has you manipulated. That anger you felt was because you had begun to form a bond with her - obviously against your better judgement or else you wouldn't have been in an open relationship for 2 years. If you had stayed detached (stayed MGTOW) you would have felt nothing and would be able to go on your merry way happy as a clam.

Consider this a blessing though. You found her true face without having gotten snared by her wiles. You could have been in it too deep with her to pull out, she could have convinced you to forge a stronger emotional connection or even marriage and then you would have been truly fucked when her true colors came out. Just consider it a mega blessing that the defects came out before you bought the product because, trust me, buyers remorse on these matters leads a lot of men to ruin at best or suicide at worst.

All in all, you did the right thing bro. It's like getting burned, you do not slowly remove the scalding material off from your skin, you jump the hell away from it and NEVER touch it again.

Peroxidekid · 2020-05-27T11:33:49+00:00

Block her. Ghost her. Make sure you never see her. You never know what type of shit she will pull on you. Going no contact is the best defense after calling it quits with her.

Riael · 2020-05-27T16:25:12+00:00

i'm still proud of myself for not accepting this bullshit and staying strong to my values

Which are your values exactly?

i'm still tilting my plates and dating other girls

If the "she changed completely in the span of 2 months" didn't happen to random people all the time I'd say you got your karma.

Unless you were an asshole about it and dated others without her knowing, I don't get how you thought she could be an unicorn.

Why would an unicorn want to be with someone that acts exactly like the women people in the redpill rage phase complain about?

i don't have any interest in sharing intimacy with someone estimating her nudity is worth 10€, so bye.

I have to ask.

Did you sext with any of the others that you dated?

Because from where I'm sitting you don't want to be with someone who SELLS their nudity but you expect her to be with you who just gives it away for free?

You're free to go your own way but be careful not to end up doing the very things you criticize women of doing.

I wish a monk would give their opinion on the thread.

edgysecularist · 2020-05-27T11:24:25+00:00

get a sexbot and leave that degenerate filth there's a reason why the Bible said it is good for man not to touch a women.

sigma1932 · 2020-05-27T10:08:21+00:00

Piece of advice: Next time you tell the story, leave out the part about how you were still spinning other plates along with her.

While I agree with the way you handled how the situation changed after her deadbeat friend moved in with her, people who don't know any better will latch onto that fact that you were screwing around with other women and start calling you a hypocrite, and will ignore the rest of your story and miss the point of her bad behavior.

Unfortunately, women are given a pass on that kind of bullshit (i.e. not walking your own talk), while men are not.

Aakash050 · 2020-05-27T14:25:22+00:00

That moment when you realise your unicorn was actually just a plain old nag, painted white with Chad's cum and with his dick stuck to her face.

ronoda12 · 2020-05-27T10:53:40+00:00

Always remember: once a hoe always a hoe

AnonDeity · 2020-05-27T12:00:19+00:00

You should told her the nudes were worth 5€ only. Then broke up with her and told her to make sure to create her account. Idk why you'd be upset think about how bad females have to be in order for us to start a thing like mgtow. All men come together and talk about how they've been screwed.

SimpDestroyer · 2020-05-27T13:12:55+00:00

2020 energy

philiciousX · 2020-05-27T13:17:11+00:00

Lost a girl but gained a lot of respect from a lot of dudes here for staying in your frame and true to your values.

And this post - I can feel your bitterness - but even without letting off steam... You, sir, are a rolemodel.

Actual_Device · 2020-05-27T13:42:42+00:00

Well done dude. I'm proud and inspired by reading this.

ivanbxng · 2020-05-27T14:14:33+00:00

Currently in “something” with an unicorn. But in case she starts doing some crazy shut I’m gonna do the same as you.

spadamaz · 2020-05-27T14:32:16+00:00

Women are so easily influenced by each other it's crazy. That other girl RUINED the friend kind enough to allow her to stay there. IF.... and I stress IFFFFFFFFFFF I were to get married again someday, she needs to understand that there will be no girls nights, no girl friends (other than long term friends with their shit together) and that's about it. For a marriage to be successful these days you need to lock yourself away as a couple. All because AWALT

Cultural_Area · 2020-05-27T15:33:08+00:00

She has no self-respect just for the fact of being part of a Chad's harem, so she's no unicorn but a low value woman to begin with. She's replaceable, Throw her away and don't look back, she doesn't deserve your (or any man's) respect.

KUL-DANK · 2020-05-27T18:06:15+00:00

sex before marriage?

theres your red flag

intelligence_skills · 2020-05-27T20:46:25+00:00

It is always their female friends who ruin such women, eventually a lot of women meet such female friends. They can't see that someone else is being better than them and coerce them into believing that they are not living their life to the fullest if they haven't experienced so and so things. Their actual intention is to drag them down.

no_one_special_too · 2020-05-27T22:32:02+00:00

AWALT claimed another victim.

No worries, The Wall will reciprocate :)

CyberSmith34 · 2020-05-27T11:20:17+00:00

Two months to "corrupt the last unicorn", imagine shackling oneself for decades to one of those creatures. Female principles are as strong as ever, I see. Imagine her friend convincing her to try some dread game on you with the onlyfans-crap, which backfired spectacularly.

Anyway well done staying strong and steadfast, not buying the tears.

PS: why not demote her to low-prio plate?

silly_birb · 2020-05-27T14:48:02+00:00

I had found a girl, 19yo virgin before me (checked myself), cute, feminine and not slutty.

Then she became bestfriend with a mediocre slut (those that are sloghtly chubby on the ass, not hot but takes a lot of dicks), and then she started crying she never fucked other guys except me and wanted to ride the cc for a while, then come back together.

It's 5-6 years i ceased all contacts with her, meanwhile her bestfriend slut is one of those feminist slut woth short hairs and eyebrow pirecing

The_2nd_Bob · 2020-05-27T14:55:56+00:00

It's hard to believe women aren't a hive mind considering how easily they change to be like a garbage friend.

AKSasquatch · 2020-05-27T15:03:59+00:00

A woman's greatest enemy is another woman.

clayticus · 2020-05-27T15:24:35+00:00

Nice that you stuck to your standards. That's the way to go

2020-05-27T15:35:24+00:00

you did the right thing, her saying she wont do it now, doesn't matter at this point, what matters is she considered doing it, and that is the message, it tells you who she really is. don't waste your time feeling any empathy on her, it will drain you and she can't be fixed. cut off all contact and find someone else

Iperovic · 2020-05-27T15:48:45+00:00

They give up the moment you get comfortable

ImAwakeISH · 2020-05-27T15:58:14+00:00

Plot twist: she's most likely 95% chance been on onlyfans since you started dating.

Gobc · 2020-05-27T16:13:10+00:00

We need more men to follow in your example. Well done bud.

madara707 · 2020-05-27T16:16:39+00:00

you weren't faithful yourself even when you thought she was this unicorn you speak of.

TrueProfessor · 2020-05-27T16:47:22+00:00

Based man. Good on you for letting that thot out of your life.

the-space-penguin · 2020-05-27T16:56:47+00:00

R-E-S-P-E-C-T for this dude taking that decision without committing anything on his side.

-Governator · 2020-05-27T16:57:03+00:00

Sorry to hear this, but now you know why unicorns don't exist. Even if one girl is better than others, her friends or media will just drag her down to their level.

Respect for your decisiveness!

argon_palladium · 2020-05-27T18:04:19+00:00

People here be dating and still calling themselves mgtow?

monopoly_life · 2020-05-27T18:44:44+00:00

I'm not sure you did the right thing (apart not having gone full monk yet, r u insane?!)... but u surely treated her worse than she deserved. There's no need to be so rude. Just leave her, you sound lost in your passions in this post. Stoicism man, maybe not forgiveness, but piety for sure.

rubix_fucked · 2020-05-27T18:54:22+00:00

You got a bargain. You learned what you did without incurring costs of divorce, alimony and child support.

2020-05-27T21:41:05+00:00

Depends on the situation. What are her motives ? Did you see the things you wanted to see ?

Stay free from judgment. We can’t control people and we never own them either. Nobody is ours. She wants to do that and that goes against your values, then you did the right thing by letting her go.

Facts are facts. Keep going your way.

Pr1nc3Sam · 2020-05-27T22:59:44+00:00

mgtow alway gets it right!!!

Scaryunderwear · 2020-05-28T01:33:31+00:00

Way to go bro! No man needs to put up with such people.

Remember to backup and keep all text messages sent and received from her for years, as well as voicemails, phonecalls, and in person conversations if you may end up having them with her. It sounds like your unicorn is being groomed and influenced by her friend or/and others. If they can convince her to sell nudes, who knows what else they can make her do or think in a week, month, or year.

I'm not trying to scare you, but better safe than sorry. There is a reason the phrase "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" exists. Just look at the hell Johnny Depp's wife has put him through. And he didn't even scorn her, she just went/was crazy.

Title	didn't believe in AWALT, now i'm convinced ...
Author	Wa12id5al1
Upvotes	280
Comments	72
Date	May 27, 2020 6:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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