I honestly feel like every man I speak to has an overwhelming urge to mention their exes constantly. For example, today some dude I’ve been texting asked how I was and I was honest and said I was in a bad mood.

So he said something like “That sucks I’m sorry, if there wasn’t this stay at home order I’d offer you a massage. Every ex-girlfriend would recommend one from me as I’ve been told I have magic hands”.

First, yeah this whole sentence was a little skeezy but besides that haha ...let’s say I was in to it.

Why did he have to throw in the last comment. Is he bragging? Is that supposed to impress me? I feel like the idea would be for me to WANT a massage & I definitely don’t want one now that I have a mental image of your exes and your creepy magic hands.

This happens a LOT to me within the first couple of dates. I don’t feel like this is jealousy on my part, i just find it to be a strange thing to bring up so early. I had one dude bring up his ex 3 times in one date....

Obviously, when things are more serious, then of course I’ll learn about your exes and that’s just something that develops eventually.

I hope that makes sense. I just don’t know if this is a “me” problem or I have some growing to do or if this is a behavior I can be annoyed with.

Thank you ladies and I hope you’re all staying sane during this time ♥️♥️