Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn use

MakingBadDecisions · 2020-03-11T22:15:45+00:00

I have not personally but my bff has dated several porn sick guys. She actually became anti porn because of it in our early 20s. I thought she was being stupid and now I see she was right. I'm glad she didn't listen to me.

Basically she kept being with guys who couldn't get hard unless they watched porn before and during. And then they couldn't stay hard during unless she was super performative. Her being performative killed her mood though, because having to act during sex is distracting, and she couldn't get off from it.

Each guy got progressively worse, where some wanted no condom sex, or wanted to hit or choke her during.

She basically has sworn off men at this point.

TheOGJammies · 2020-03-11T22:33:26+00:00

Is there some kind of race to the bottom to see how unattractive they can make themselves in a generation?

nalia1rebel · 2020-03-11T22:22:39+00:00

I had a guy pull out his phone to watch lesbian porn when we were in the middle of sexual activity. He asked me twice. The first time I said no but the second time I caved in for some reason.

I was putting in most of the work and the sex was pretty bland to say the least.

PaciencaYFe · 2020-03-11T22:23:07+00:00

This is all deadbedrooms

metisviking · 2020-03-12T01:53:23+00:00

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metisviking · 2020-03-12T03:01:41+00:00

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anothernewyorklady · 2020-03-12T02:48:30+00:00

I recently dated a guy in his early 30’s with ED from porn addiction. He had to take medication every single time we had sex. Honestly, the foreplay was definitely above average. I ended up breaking it off though - couldn’t handle the thought of trying to make it work long term given the porn sickness.

2020-03-12T02:57:21+00:00

What's even more sad is that this article is a year old.
I wonder how high that percentage is NOW.

azureeyks · 2020-03-12T10:56:36+00:00

Ugh porn sick ex. Was so disappointing smashing a floppy not even half way through. Foreplay was - ME sucking his dick and maybe a kiss 😂Stayed far too long with that idiot.

But wait there’s more. And I’m so ashamed to admit how much of a pickmeisha i was. He could never cum, he would WATCH PORN while I was trying to give him a BJ and 3-4 times a night jerked off next to me whilst I was trying to sleep. AND once whilst heavily pregnant and attempting to get some loving. He literally slapped phone on my back to play porn, when I told him he was disgusting and I’m not into it, he yelled at me because he “wAs NeaRLy ThErE”

🤦‍♀️ Don’t be a me. Now I have to co parent with him forever!!!! Because I HAD low standards and tolerated shit for “love” I high tailed it out of there when my bub was 10 weeks old.

HauntedManagement · 2020-03-12T03:03:21+00:00

Every day I am more sickened w my generation. Jesus, they range from dangerous violent predators to utterly useless. The second guy I ever had sex with was porn addicted and couldn’t get off without death grip. Made me so insecure at the time thinking I wasn’t hot enough or he didn’t like me enough. He always wanted head and/or rough sex. Sex with him was such a chore. It’s embarrassing I put up with it considering how bad it made me feel about myself. Never again- if a guy is porn sick then it’s not my job to fix him or make up for his lack of self control.

smolsunrise · 2020-03-12T06:00:32+00:00

Oh yes, yes I have.

There was the gorgeous 19 year old who couldn’t come without death grip handjobs.

Also a 24 year old construction worker who didn’t even interact with me during sex, I was watching him act out porn scenes for some imaginary cameraman using my body as a prop and watching it, and once in a while when he liked the scene he would look at my face like, “whoa, how about that?” Yes, ladies, I told him he was horrible in bed when I dumped him by text message.

Sage_Planter · 2020-03-12T08:14:19+00:00

I briefly dated a porn sick guy around five years ago. He was inexperienced in bed, and as you can imagine, coupled with his porn addiction, the sex was terrible. Not only did he have ED, he also tried all these ridiculous porn moves which felt silly, not sexy. I was patient, however, he didn't seem to think it was that much of a big deal. I was not okay with that attitude.

This is a little bit of a bitch move... I walked out on him our last time in bed together. One morning, we were having sex, and he went soft as was usual. He suggested 69, and I remember thinking "I could have gotten up early and gone for a run instead of being here..." I told him I had to go, got up, put my pants on and left. A few days later, I told him we were done. I could not do it anymore.

Consider_the_Horses · 2020-03-12T12:10:34+00:00

the Good News: they will be forced to engage in foreplay in order to have sex. They've jacked themselves off into only being able to have the sex they aren't into 🤡

the Real News: they probably just wont want to have sex at all,

Good news? Ah, I mean, to each their own but I can imagine more exciting things than oral sex with males who are so extremely pornsick that they have become impotent in their early 20s already, lol. 🤮

abstractsadgurl · 2020-03-12T05:04:59+00:00

Bf had these problems and i honestly would have left him but he's now working on his problems. I used to be ok with porn until I met him and his addiction. If things dont work between us I'll be sure to steer clear from pornsick men in the future

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intrepidis_dux · 2020-03-12T03:14:09+00:00

My exhusband was like this.

Title	Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn use
Author	metisviking
Upvotes	88
Comments	41
Date	March 11, 2020 8:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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