So this is what I mean when I say target practice. Back in August or September pickmeisha me actually turned down a guy for casual sex(Not in the strongest way but I still did) and he went crying with his dick between his legs because I didn’t want that or poly. Well he returned! Back and redeemed saying he wanted Monogamy and looking at my photos made him want to settle down with me. I’m SO LUCKY /s anyway I played along.

He made an off handed comment about “How he wonders everyday how I feel inside” how romantic :) and then proceeds to ask me why my precious tinder date didn’t go well.

I gave him the truth sprinkled with FDS + DTW and target practice. “Oh I was too expensive for him it was too painful for him to spend money every time he had to load up money on the card we were using at the activity we went to.” He proceeds to say “Oh you made him pay for everything?” And I respond with “He invited me out I didn’t ask him for anything, so yeah :)” I can tell the conversation is nose diving but I am having fun being out of his league and reach.

He then proceeds to tell me how materialistic that is and he remembers! I am the girl who said no to coffee and wanted a dinner date lmao.

“Going our for coffee is like the standard, saying you want a dinner date makes it seem like it’s something else. We should get to know each other before surf and turf. I don’t think it’s fair a guy loses because he takes a woman out for a nice meal and has a nice time and may not even get a call back or anything.”

And I said “Oh you mean he has a risk? Yeah women have a risk when they go out with a guy they barely know all alone and hope the guy is decent and safe. On top of that when you have the money and don’t mind it you give it or treat them cause you want someone to have it not because you think you’re being taken advantage of”

He got quiet because he ran out of things to say and made an excuse to call me tomorrow after I said “No need to debate it’s good to disagree you learn so much about a person that way!” In a nice voice.

I’m laughing my ass off because I know he was basically trying to get me to lower my standards and make it a quick and cheap fuck for him.

“I wouldn’t want to make someone feel like they couldn’t afford me or uncomfortable!”