Ladies - I’ve been NC with my NVM for a few months now. Homeboy is the one who left me (not for the first time) and requested no contact, which I happily gave. He’s tried to come back twice now, apologies and the whole long emails, you know the drill - so I know the door is open. But I refuse to step back into that terribly toxic and emotionally abusive relationship. I’ve been so tempted to check his Instagram (which I have blocked) for the last two weeks or so - BUT I HAVEN’T. It took so long to get to this point and I do not want to ruin my progress. I know logically I shouldn’t care at all what he’s up to - emotions are still hard.

So please! Drop a meme, tell me your favorite quote, share a story, share a big win you had this week. I REFUSE to give in and turn to this group instead for support. Much love.