Take every thing they say with a grain of salt until they prove otherwise. Whether it's lying about sharing the same passion or interest as you do (I've seen so many tweets of men bragging about pretending to be into astrology or wtv to hook up with girls), or saying they want a relationship just so you'll put out faster and suddenly they decide they're "not ready". Their showering of compliments about how beautiful and too good to be true you are after speaking for 1.5 days can not be trusted. I'm not saying to keep a wall up your entire life, but remember that nutting is so important to men that they will do and say ANYTHING just to get it. Do not feel bad for being short with them when they get out of line, or not responding to their "I wish I could see you :( " messages that they just so happen to send past 10 or only after you post a bomb ass selfie. Don't feel bad about ghosting them when they don't feel bad about lying to you just to get off.