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[–]darling89FDS Newbie82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup! Gimme a break. Fake pretending to be someone they are not to get what they want.
[–]ohleniisheFDS Newbie84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not only that but even if they're genuinely nice, some of them have this idea that that's all it should take for the women they want to want them back. They hate it when you process in Chemistry, comparability and attraction into it all the while picking you for all those reasons.
[–]tauruspiscescancerFDS Disciple[S] 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
this!!!!!! like okay you are nice and what else????
[–]ohleniisheFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The bar is so low, it's in hell.
[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh, they sometimes can't even be genuinely nice. I once would have settled for just genuine niceness, but I came along so many manipulative nice guys who thought of me as a sex dispenser machine to put nice coins in. Fortunately, now I wouldn't settle for just niceness, even if it was genuine, bevause I know that alone without anything else equals a miserable relationship. For both parties.
[–]cannedboelynFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When I lurk the subreddits with guys giving each other dating advice, most of the advice I see from men is- and I’m paraphrasing here: Are you nice? Girls don’t care about looks just as long as you have a good personality
[–]sadpourtoujoursFDS Disciple61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Actual nice people aren’t nice because they hope it will earn them something in return. They’re nice because they are genuinely and intrinsically kind. The simply wish to bring happiness to others, wanting nothing in return. Being nice to get something is called manipulation. Read that last sentence again any lurking nIcE gUy scrote. It’s manipulation and you don’t deserve shit for being a manipulative fucking weasel.
[–]jeanneeebeanneeeFDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Actual nice people understand that niceness is its own reward. We're nice because that's how we like to be treated, and we sleep easy at night knowing we make the world a more pleasant place.
Shitty people put on an act of being nice ONLY when they think it will benefit them personally. And when it doesn't get them the benefit they were expecting, they're offended, because to them, being nice is an imposition, not just the correct way to live.
[–]DJSparksalotFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Niceguys: "YOU DUMB WHORE I HAVE 5 STAMPS ON MY "Good DeedsTM " card. I'm OWED free sex on the 6th one! And you have the audacity to leave me on read?"
[–]nopuedeser818FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, that last sentence nails it. If you're "pretending" then it's not real. You don't get rewarded for things that are not real.
[–]seelina455FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ESPECIALLY when that role is demanded of women 100% of the time.
Not only are we expected to be nice, but exceedingly so, all of the time.
[–]Davina33FDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No lies detected!
[–]da_rleneFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t get cookies for doing something “nice” with your own interest in mind. I genuinely dislike guys who have that ducked up level of entitlement
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Clapping so hard at this
[–]_ROBERTO_IS_CRAZYFDS STRATEGY COACH2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ohhhhhhh I love it.
Damn. DAMN again!
LOUDER FOR THE MALE LURKERS!
[–]kayleeinthecityFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
bloop
[–]SirIzzy10 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've never seen that point put nicer than it is put here.
[–]MissSara91FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like don’t they realize they are simply ugly and that’s why no one wants to date them? Like a girl can be nice too, but if she’s unattractive to a guy, it doesn’t mean she automatically should get the guys heart... attraction has a lot to do with it.
“I’m nice, why doesn’t she like me?”. Um maybe because you’re fat Johnny boy. Or maybe bald or maybe none of that but she doesn’t think you’re cute! God! Why is it so hard to understand that you’re not everyone’s cup of tea.
[–]Doloughlin0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know right. Nice girls get humiliated, raped, kidnapped, killed, beat up, used, and played. Just for being nice, doing favors, smiling and saying hi. But self proclaimed "nice guys" tend to be jobless/broke, disrespectful to their moms while living with them, dirty, smelly, sexist and misogynist, have a superiority complex against women, so much that we don't even get to be women. Just girls. Because they're just middle aged boys. Then they wind up being pedophiles because they're tired of being rejected by adult women
[–]greenbeanbirdFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this!! Thanks for the reminder that we don't have to bow to his precious little feefees; when he pigeonholes us in a role we don't want, aren't comfortable with, etc. that he thinks we should play for him because was 'a nICe gUy' we're free to go!
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