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[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist60 points61 points62 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The first time you piss him off he'll threaten to put it on the internet.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"he'll never do that, I trust him"
They. Always. Do.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep
[–]purpleprinter_FDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Ladies, pro tip, if you’re worried about your hormones controlling you, please get a vibrator. I recommend the “pro satisfyer 2”. You’ll thank me later ;)
[–]v4g1n4everFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I have a Womanizer, Premium version, and I love it, but I was thinking of adding a Satisfyer to my pleasure chest.
[–]purpleprinter_FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I will have to look into the “Womanizer”. Every friend I have recommended the pro satisfyer to has absolutely loved it. I think it’s worth the investment.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have a Womanizer Starlet 2. Used it earlier. Not a bad piece of kit!
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I've never owned a vibrator, but in seriously considering. Do you think it impacts sensitivity and makes it harder to orgasm when you have sex? I wasn't sure and that's the only thing that's holding me back. Well, that and being scared my son will find it.
[–]purpleprinter_FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you do it too much then it could impact sensitivity. Everything in moderation. You could put it in a clothing drawer or some other random place that your son wouldn’t think to look
Good to know, thanks! I've always been curious. :)
[–]purpleprinter_FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course. I think you should go for it!
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[–]JasmineDragon110At-Risk Pick Me Youth-4 points-3 points-2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You can masterbate without it. These things DO affect sensitivity. When you're used to a higher stimulus, a lower one will not be enough.
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[–]JasmineDragon110At-Risk Pick Me Youth-3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The more you use it the more you get used to it the longer it lasts. It's the same as porn. The brain is plastic and gets used to any repeated stimulus.
[–]JasmineDragon110At-Risk Pick Me Youth0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it does. It will desensitize you. Anything that provides a higher stimulus than real life (porn, vibrators, etc) will make you relatively disappointed by reality. When you're used to a higher stimulus, the lower stimulus is not enough.
[–]WimminCritterFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Omg I always thought the suctiony ones were too expensive. Thank you for this valuable information.
[–]purpleprinter_FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They are definitely a little more on the expensive side but they’re so worth it. The pro satisfyer 2 is around $50.
[–]WimminCritterFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yesss, I was delighted to see that because my last purchase was twice that.
[–]WorkingOnMyself012 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ty!
[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And even if he doesn't share, he'll be sure to keep it. Do you want to risk getting his phone/computer hacked, getting a virus or just fiddled with?
[–]v4g1n4everFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He takes it to Best Buy where the Geek Squad gets to ogle your goodies too.
[–]spin_the_globeFDS STRATEGY COACH24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So much this. "No nudes is good nudes" - my motto.
If he wants to see YOU nude, he can do it in person, no cameras of any kind.
If he wants to see a nude vid or photo, he wants a nude vid or photo, he does not care if you're the person in it.
Giving him nudes will not stop him from looking at porn, looking at other women, or cheating on you. If he's going to do those things, he'll do them regardless of whether he has your nudes.
Plus, you're giving him something to use against you if you piss him off.
You do not win by giving men nude photos or video. Ever.
[–]heckonmyneck15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish someone told me this when I was younger.
[–]nymphaetamineFDS Disciple15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Something like this actually happened to a male friend of mine many years ago. He met a pretty girl on facebook and things got hot & heavy, and soon they were skyping. He couldn't see her and she gave some excuse about her camera being broken but she still could see him and wanted to watch him whack it. So he pulls the pickle on camera and immediately afterward she says she recorded him and was going to send the video to all his friends & family if he didn't send her $1000. He sent her $300 but she kept demanding more and making threats. I think he sent her another $100 then finally called me a couple days later nearly in tears, begging for my help cause he had no money left and didn't want everyone to see him jacking off. I logged into his FB to read her messages and it was a pretty obvious scam, the "girl's" pictures were all taken from google and her address was in another country. I had to help him file a police report in the hopes that he might be able to get his money back, and the cop was red the whole time from trying not to laugh. He didn't get his money back but learned a priceless lesson instead. Normally I wouldn't feel bad for men who do this but this friend is legitimately mentally challenged (low IQ, able to work & live alone, but trusts everyone and can't tell when he's being taken advantage of) so I did feel kinda bad for him.
So yup, never EVER get nude on camera for anyone.
[–]throwaway23004345FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ppl say I slut shame but what is the point of sharing nudes with your partner? Like civilization has survived and you can never trust a man 100%’
[–]SewudFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's so stupid. Your man is fine without nudes and a respectful man would never ask for nudes. But men are shamelessly pushy and manipulative so he might pretend he needs nudes to survive. I've never had any interest in sharing nudes and I've always said no and yet men have always ignored my no and kept asking.
Would you send me a nude? No. Just your X. No. Why not? I'm just not into that. Just a peak. I don't know you! You can trust me. I just have no interest in doing that. Please, I really want to see! I just really don't want to do that. Just go on video and show me.
It never stops! Why are men so shitty? Trying to convince girls they barely know to send them nudes? I know now that I have to have higher standards in men and I have to cut anyone who asks for nudes AND anyone who disrespects my boundaries. Those are two unforgivable things together or separate.
But I honestly don't know where I'll find any men at all. They all ask for pictures and disrespect boundaries. I think the only good guy who didn't do those things were snapped by 22.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It never stops! Why are men so shitty? Trying to convince girls they barely know to send them nudes?
They're shitty because they can be, and they get away with it. Unfortunately, my guess is that women who are afraid of being single are willing to acquiesce. "I won't have a man if I don't give them nudes!" "If I don't have a man, I'm nothing!"
[–]DimethylchlorineFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some girls do it for attention others it’s intimacy when you guys have to be apart for a long time. All I know is 100% risk and 0% reward. They ruined it for themselves , we ain’t doing that anymore.
[–]SewudFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They do it even with non-naked pictures. I didn't want to send nudes, but some guys convinced me to send selfies or clothed pictures. They say they won't save them, they all lie. It was a hard truth to realize men don't mind lying. They will 100% pressure you and lie to your face. They don't mind. They even say "it's not lying if the person doesn't find out". Their only moral is pleasuring themselves any way they can.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This needed a post? Of course the guy will exploit nudes.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol yep I'm never sending nudes again - not that I ever leave my face in. The worst is when you're with a guy in person and he tries to take photos 🤢
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