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[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple309 points310 points311 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
This is perfect. So I sent it to my Pickmesha bestie of over 20 years, who is currently going through a “breakup” (she was the guy’s mistress for over a decade and he’s literally the most worthless human being I’ve ever known). She responded positively...
...and then she shared it to social media for him to see. Because she hasn’t blocked him. And she has no fucking dignity left.
I’m squinting angrily today.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ugh...
Can i say how glad I am I have no personal social media? While its not something Id ever post its freeing to see nothing or hear nothing from exes, toxic people etc via social media. SM can be a black hole of rumination, attention seeking for the wrong reasons, projecting your trauma, depression, etc, etc.
[–]alli4202FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am too. I'm so damn happy.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hear that, its freeing. It can make the best of people go 'crazy'!
Have a business, sure is can rock for that, does for me(business IG/Pinterest only). personal end, set yourself free! haha. And even for business you dont need All social media channels at all, use what works for your business even if its just one channel and rock it.
I will have no part of Fakebook even for business personally.
[–]alli4202FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know how a lot of people, myself included, are really quick to see the negative in things instead of seeing the positive....I feel like that happens a lot inside social media. ....and I just feel so much lighter without that bullshit.
[–]Kaykay0708Pickmeisha™️35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao. I'm all out of sympathy for girls like these. I have a neighbor who is like that; dating a married man because she says that they were an item before he met his wife, and she believes she was there first. Apparently, they broke things off for a while, she moved to another city and lost contact, and he went off and married someone else.
My attitude toward her, and girls like her, rn is; sure. Keep going sis, maybe you're right and one day he’ll recognize you're his ”true love” and leave his wife. Lol. Maybe you won't waste away your entire existence waiting for him to pick you. He’ll wake up and realize that you're ”the one,” and both of you will ride off into the sunset.
But if and when he doesn't, best believe that I won't waste energy and time being your sounding board or consoling shoulder.
Find someone else.
And don't bother calling me a bad friend because I took my duty as a friend seriously when I warned you.
I stay angrily squinting at all these heffas with no self-respect or dignity.
[–]CyanCayenneFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aw man, this made me LOL but I feel bad. You're doing good trying to help! It's a lot of brainwashing to undo!
[–]Inez_HoneyfoxFDS Apprentice40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m cringing hard at this because you might as well be describing me. All of it 😣 I have so much work to do
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Do what ever you need to do to never post it on social media even if butt hurt, angry, etc. Just keep to friends/family/etc you can vent to.
You got you, you can do it! :)
Edit to add, vent here if you need to, to help work through it.
Ladies whatever you do or need to work on keep it off social media, reach out to a friend, family member, therapist or vent here. Always act like a lady and keep your baggage/dirty laundry off social media.
[–]Inez_HoneyfoxFDS Apprentice15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I actually pulled myself away from all social media a few months ago, after doing all the wrong things. I’m in the process of rebooting my entire life, so it was part of the “clean out”. I’m going forward as a much more private person now. This group is actually as close as I get to social media anymore.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you. Id advocate anyone dumping personal social media(very limited use), it can be so toxic and don't even realize its happening. It can trigger the living crap out of us(anyone man or women) to act a fool.
I dumped mine about 7 years ago and only use a business IG/Pinterest and have a 95% women audience.
[–]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m proud of you for making changes. Changing yourself is one of the hardest and most rewarding things you’ll ever do.
[–]SpiderrGFDS Newbie[S] 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ughhhh my friend does that stuff too, I don't understand it.
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's just sad to watch someone waste their life on some dirtbag.
[–]Eldest_MuseFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why even bother commenting on that verbal garbage?
It literally says she was never missed until she was gone and that when she shone brightly, he looked at her with disdain.
The meme then says to be the moon...less brilliant, muted and only seen by few since most people sleep and rarely notice the Moon as much as the Sun.
The only thing that needs to be changed here is never accept that treatment from anyone. You are always the Sun and will always shine brilliant, even on the darkest days.
Just because clouds and rain obscure the Sun; that changes nothing. The Sun will always shine even if not seen or appreciated every single day. It may take time for the darkness to clear, but the Sun is always brilliant.
Never let anyone tell you that you are only missed once you've left and that you are looked upon negatively when you shine.
Fuck this meme.
[–]SpiderrGFDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the opposite of what it says. Someone said "let's change it to the moon" and someone else said, "no the sun is accurate and this is why."
[–]hunnybee_txtFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I mean the original quote is pretty good too. It’s from Tolstoy.
[–]Conflictedxconfused79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"He walked down, for a long while avoiding looking at her as at the sun, but seeing her, as one does the sun, without looking." Anna Karenina
[–]SpiderrGFDS Newbie[S] 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's beautiful. Totally different meaning, beautiful.
[–]FDSdiscipleFDS Disciple47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Shakespeare already sorted this one out:
The Moon is fickle. The Sun is powerful.
[–]alli4202FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Isn't it weird how we can't stop staring at what's fickle..... But if it powerful, we squint. Hmmm
[–]SpiderrGFDS Newbie[S] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck yes.
[–]aclumsygirlAt-Risk Pick Me Youth33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"He never looked at her until she was leaving, and in the beauty of the sunset he wondered how he'd never seen her before."
That's pretty damn perfect.
[–]persephones_torchFDS Disciple20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was such a good analogy damn
[–]jeerieFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg I've never seen it that way! Amazing
[–]StillAwakeofCourseFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The truth in this.
[–]MeatPiesDota5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Today I was missing my ex quite keenly and then I read this shit fucking onions
[–]Kaykay0708Pickmeisha™️2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmmm
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beautifully poignant
[–]Inez_HoneyfoxFDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Goddamnit
[–]madandunabashedFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sadly, men could never be that romantic
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