Hit the wall? Not at all!

Inez_Honeyfox · 2020-01-20T00:58:29+00:00

So true! The more I look around, the more obvious it is that women are the ones who age beautifully.

ThicThighzSavesLivez · 2020-01-20T01:00:15+00:00

...And the amount of power we gain as we age is the real prize.

ny-lady · 2020-01-20T02:28:57+00:00

46 and no shortage of men trying.

ponchoacademy · 2020-01-20T06:21:28+00:00

The wall my ass... I've had guys my age hit on me thinking I'm in my mid to late 20s.. Talking to me like I'm some kid and asking me what Im majoring in (incidentally, both cities I've lived in recently are within a few blocks of a major University)

I'm in my early 40s, and when I tell them I'm not in school and closer to their age, many have said something along the lines of ohh well that makes this less weird then.

No, you're still a weird perv for hitting on me because you thought I was in my 20s. Just cause he's my age doesn't mean he's suddenly not a dirty old man, the intention and creep factor is already out there.

A couple times I've been in a bad enough mood to tell them it would still be wierd to date a guy that looks 20ys older than me. Just to really twist the knife in that they look too old to date a woman their own age moreless someone as young as what they were bold enough to try and go after. Just in the hopes they'll second guess themselves and save the actual 20/30 something's from that grossness.

My daughter is in college and it seriously creeps me out that if it were her instead of me they'd be hitting on her like that. Honestly, it's one thing to get to know someone and want to date them regardless of age difference, but to walk up to a total stranger thinking she's a college coed hoping to get her into bed because she's young, that's just gross.

redbirdflies · 2020-01-20T01:05:52+00:00

I’m almost middle aged and people guess my age to be around 35-37. I regularly get much younger men sliding into my dm’s and when I posted a profile (out of curiosity) on Tinder, I received literally thousands of likes in less than 4 days

There’s no wall ladies. The wall is absolute bullshit

Take zero shit from men!

Evil_Rao · 2020-01-20T02:13:18+00:00

I feel like a lot of women get so much better with age... I remember my ex had this coworker in her 40s and they asked me to guess her age. I guessed early 30s and couldn't believe it when they told me her real age. I also feel like in my case I'm getting better as time goes by, mostly because I do skincare/haircare religiously and love to dress up.

Meanwhile guys will have gray hair, wrinkles and will not bother taking care of themselves by the time they're 30. OLD is just so depressing because I feel like guys have much better choices than we do no matter what age they're looking for

Parking-Act · 2020-01-20T02:10:32+00:00

A few years ago, I met a woman who at the time was in her early to mid 70's but you couldn't tell me this woman was a day over 55!

She told me her secret was walking, eating healthy and not letting men stress her out! She was a business owner and fashionista! She just came back from a vacation with her daughter I believe. She was fabulous!

Firefly10886 · 2020-01-20T01:52:39+00:00

The wall is when you marry a LVM when you’re young and wake up one day at 37 realizing your mistake... only after he’s used you up.

jetpatch · 2020-01-20T12:42:23+00:00

And it's been shown that if you look younger on the outside your health is better on the inside too.

Most men in their thirties look like they are dying of something because they have wrecked their bodies with drink, drugs, junk food or a sedentary lifestyle. The active ones do drugs and the sober ones become mole people hooked to their computers. No wonder women chase dad-bods, they just want someone not at one extreme or the other.

Title	Hit the wall? Not at all!
Author	MuffinSongs
Upvotes	109
Comments	17
Date	January 19, 2020 11:17 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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