Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?

Gabriel-DS · 2021-02-15T13:27:47+00:00

In western society, divorce rate is high. Younger people often deal with divorced parents. Society tells you that stable family with love is the norm. But reality is different.

FudgingEgo · 2021-02-15T14:17:09+00:00

Pretty much all my friends have divorced parents including me.

It’s just common of the modern relationship.

Optionsmfd · 2021-02-15T13:39:57+00:00

why does every woman in my age group have an ex husband and 2 kids?

its probably not u... just reality

in another generation most parents will either b divorced or just never married being raised at some point by single parent

subaruguy14 · 2021-02-15T13:55:24+00:00

The divorce rate is high?

sanholt · 2021-02-15T14:33:12+00:00

Because most ppl be getting divorced these days and back in our parents days

RedDeAngelo · 2021-02-15T14:30:22+00:00

Where are you meeting these women, Im betting its not at the farmers market, book store cafes, swimming pools.

Robin2Fast2Furious · 2021-02-15T16:29:05+00:00

It’s an endless cycle of broken families creating broken people who in turn create broken families. I would suggest against forming long term relationships with these women, especially if you’re looking for a healthy family dynamics.

randomthoughts1050 · 2021-02-15T14:17:06+00:00

No penalty for getting divorced, in fact it's usually a positive.

During the bad times in a marriage, most men will struggle through it, while women will say fuck it. Mixture of lightswitch effect, typically make less money and might get limited alimony, many social programs exclusively to support women, etc.

Couple months ago, saw a top post in relationship advice, where the problem between husband and wife could have been easily talked through, the advice was to divorce rape him and get as much money for child support as she can. "He deserves it" Don't even recall the issue, but was fairly basic, like him constantly forgetting to pick something up on the way home.

bluewahle1900 · 2021-02-15T13:00:25+00:00

If you were damaged goods yourself I would say you are just attracting what you yourself are putting out into the world. But because you aren’t, they probably see a stable centered man. They want the security and to feel safe. Something there father didn’t offer. Basically they are looking for a daddy I think but who knows

urbanfoh · 2021-02-15T13:36:28+00:00

Maybe you just live in a liberal area that neglected family values for decades?

Might have nothing to do with you specifically, if 70+% of the city population stems from damaged families

Palembomen · 2021-02-15T15:48:22+00:00

Unrelated but how are the Netherlands these days? I will be back this summer after having spent ten years in the USA. I'm hoping that what has happened here hasn't fully arrived there yet, but maybe I am too optimistic.

daproest1 · 2021-02-15T17:18:27+00:00

I’ve literally never been with a girl who doesn’t have divorced parents. It sucks.

MattyAnon · 2021-02-15T19:03:02+00:00

Are they seeking that warmth or some shit like that?

Warmth no.

Safety possibly.

At least 50% of marriages end in divorce, so this coulld be just an unlucky streak.

Ur_X · 2021-02-15T19:16:42+00:00

I usually attract ones that have unresolved father or rape issues. I’ve been told we attract the same issues we dealt with through our childhood trauma.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-02-15T14:25:09+00:00

It's not you. Girls with divorced parents are attracted to anyone, really.

They don't get enough love from their parents, so in order to recompensate, they seek it out from people in a thirsty way. Even healthy and good women suffer from this. Broken people get attracted to and attached to other people too easily.

In a good relationship, you give things time, you get to know each other in time, you observe them, if you believe that the the other person is suitable for you, and can make you happy, it is only then you proceed.

That's why you don't LTR women who sleep with you in the first date.

Rifleshoot · 2021-02-15T15:53:12+00:00

Not politically correct to say, but it’s usually the damaged women that like to date outside of their race or ethnicity. I think these type of women have a natural inclination to take more risks in life, so they are comfortable dating outside of what is normally expected. This also means that they have a higher likelihood of getting pregnant, because they are willing to engage in riskier behavior.

If you were able to find a sizeable Turkish community with several single women, I would be willing to bet that more of the more traditionally minded women would be showing you interest.

NightTerror6 · 2021-02-15T17:53:14+00:00

I don’t know anything about you, but the reason you may not be attracting any quality women is because you lack quality yourself. Food for thought.

TominatorXX · 2021-02-16T01:10:54+00:00

Girls of divorced parents aren't "damaged" just because their parents got divorced.

AhuraMazda88 · 2021-02-15T16:22:03+00:00

Go to asia. Asian pussy tight and they loyal.There will be thots because thots are everywhere. However, they are not as prevalent in asia. Personally like Vietnamese girls more.

RedwallAllratuRatbar · 2021-02-15T21:44:04+00:00

I had the same story, turns out they were literaly the best people ever - if you got there first. They are only damaged after some ncount

froze_gold · 2021-02-16T01:55:51+00:00

I use to attract single moms for a reason I can't pinpoint. They're usually pretty damaged too. Fuck them once or twice and suddenly they talk a lot about ahem shit I don't care about. I always assume they want some thing from me, like provisions.

josh_e_pants · 2021-02-16T04:51:09+00:00

You are attracted to girls with fancy genes. Men with fancy genes are less likely to commit or stay in relationships. Girls with fancy genes have fathers with fancy genes.

ppanther92 · 2021-02-16T07:06:52+00:00

The answer is probably just - because most girls have divorced parents.

CustardMuster · 2021-02-16T10:08:57+00:00

What’s wrong with divorced prends? Mine are still together and should have split decades ago. The amount of bagage I’ve had to sort through because of that is unfair.

Don’t judge a person on their family.

cunningcaring · 2021-02-17T02:41:29+00:00

It's not the women, its you. Stop hooking up with damaged women.

Valmama85 · 2021-02-15T15:04:07+00:00

What is it about having divorced parents makes a person damaged? That’s some dumb level thinking. WhAt if they got divorced after 30 years and she was an adult? She would damage? Ok 👌

EastLadder6358 · 2021-02-15T16:09:25+00:00

Idk who cares

amwfhunter · 2021-02-15T17:04:49+00:00

They want u to be their daddy

Title	Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?
Author	youngfuture7
Upvotes	77
Comments	85
Date	February 15, 2021 12:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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