In a bluepill world, are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness?

wtknight · 2021-02-14T05:16:29+00:00

Removed. This post is both low effort and woe-is-me, both of which are against sub rules.

GenZedEd · 2021-02-14T04:19:56+00:00

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GenZedEd · 2021-02-14T04:38:01+00:00

are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness?

Only if they're not attractive, rich or high in status or value.

reluctantly_red · 2021-02-14T04:36:30+00:00

Socially awkward men who are not good looking have always suffered in loneliness.

JohnDoe9564 · 2021-02-14T04:24:32+00:00

First if all, define 'Blue Pill'.

I asked a question on TBP on how a man can learn better communication skills when perusing potential romantic/sexual partners that doesn't follow red pill philosophy.

Millions of men are still dating and getting married without knowing what TRP is. It's not necessary for getting laid.

NockerJoe · 2021-02-14T04:35:19+00:00

Essentially. Most of the advice they actually get in spaces like this is stuff they probably already tried and didn't work. The same people will continue giving the same advice even after repeated statements it doesn't work, because the person giving the advice doesn't care if it works or not, they just want to think of themselves as being nice to percieved inferiors.

It's the same thing as when WSB did their fuckery and that guy said instead of fucking with stocks these guys should be going outside and talking to girls. That guy in the suit very clearly doesn't care if those guys are doing that, he wanted to talk down to them in a way that would force compliance while making himself look like someone who cares, while in actuality he was clearly prepared to drop the discussion and go back to being a rich suit unrelated to the issues young men face the moment the camera stopped rolling.

The issue is that at the end of the day there's two categories of people. That's people suffering from the problem directly, and everyone else who'd rather the problem never have serious discussion because they either don't care, or don't like the answers that'd come from it. Most people are in the latter group. Which means that men in the former group need to force the issue, which ultimately means somehow going against the social mechanisms designed to keep them quiet and making things visible and uncomfortable for everybody else. Because unless they make it everybody else's problem the rest of the world would genuinely rather they suffer in silence, than piss on them even if they're on fire.

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Demasii · 2021-02-14T04:55:59+00:00

How does the red pill philosophy actually help you get into relationships?

The last time I check out the red pill side bar it was full of advice for men already in a relationship.

NarniaFox · 2021-02-14T04:23:57+00:00

I think the main advice for these men is to seek help and improve their social skills.

They're often socially awkward for a reason. Lots of them need therapy or at least a coach who would help them to get their shit together. CBT might be a good answer.

And you improve your social skills by actually trying to be sociable. I was a wallflower during most my teen years and no, just being a girl didn't help to overcome it. So when I went to university I tried my best to talk to people and find myself a company. Talk to people around you, talk to a cashier (it was a problem for me), participate in some "student's life" activities, join a hobby club etc.

pre-DrChad · 2021-02-14T04:56:08+00:00

Something like 95% of men get married in their lifetime. The other 5% is either severely disabled or just didn’t want to marry.

Blue pill seems to be working fine for the vast majority of humans

Most-Palpitation-962 · 2021-02-14T04:26:31+00:00

The world is full of awkward men and nearly everyone gets into relationships. If you are awkward, learn some social skills and actually go out for the weekend and hang out with people.

iloveyoubutyou · 2021-02-14T04:43:57+00:00

No, they can get themselves out of this rut but they have to realize no one is going to come along and help them do it.

Title	In a bluepill world, are socially awkward men expected to suffer in loneliness?
Author	Waffle_Hacker
Upvotes	15
Comments	61
Date	February 14, 2021 4:16 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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