I have always been redpilled in my thinking and priorities, even long before I knew of The Red Pill. I met my fiance at the age of 21 with an n-count of 1 (from a 3 year LTR), where I picked him out from a very long line of potential suitors. He was the same age as me, a student and painfully shy.
Over the next nine years we grew as a couple and he became much more attractive both psychically and mentally. Don't get me wrong; I have always been insanely attracted to him, but back in the days no other women were interested. Now they are and I only see this getting worse as his career is taking of and he is gaining status and confidence.
I am 30 now, have kept my figure, a youthful but classy style and my face looks younger due to genetics and great skincare since my teens. However, I feel so terrified that going forward, my value will only decline in the eyes of men while his will increase in the eyes of women. I feel sad that he (as are all men) is hardwired to be the most attracted to women in their early twenties and I fear that he will begin to wonder what is out there.
My worst nightmare is that we have kids and then he leaves me for someone 10 years younger and leaves me a single parent. I live in a country where alimony doesn't exist so he could do so without any repercussions, and I feel powerless. I know that biologically in just 10 years he wont be as attracted to me (if at all) while he will have an abundance of starry-eyed 26 years olds to choose from. And neither would any other men if I were to end up single, as all high quality men will choose a younger woman given the chance.
Knowing male biology, we know that our men will grow less attracted to us as we age. How do we deal with this knowledge?
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