I rarely come to this sub anymore, so this is probably covered somewhere, but wanted to discuss a frame shit test that isn't something I had personally read in the past.

Shit test examples on pua sites were always essentially insults, and the recommended answer was usually "agree & amplify" even if the amplification was dumb and lame.

So wanted to give you two examples of the "follow their lead" shit tests I've come across. First noticed it in person probably 3-4 years back. Was talking/semi dancing with this 7 at a bar. After a 5-10 minutes, she grabbed my hand and twirled me to the beat of the music. I playfully went along, matching her enthusiasm even though it really didn't fit the scene of the bar. She literally walked away within 15 seconds and avoided me the rest of the night.

Recently, I met a 9.5 who would do similar over text. I said we should get drinks the following Monday, and she seemed interested, but said she didn't know if she could cause of work (which was bs). Sunday I texted her again and she said "Sorry I have work :(".

Beta me of the past would have already been head over heels and followed her frame here, saying "Damn that sucks :( when would be a good day for you?" Her giving me that ":(" would have validated that she 1) did care about me, and 2) she wanted me to push more because obviously she's interested or else I wouldn't have her number.

But it's a subtle shit test. If you do not care you'll move on to others and not be mean, which is what I did. I just responded "No probs" and didn't text again. 1 week later she was at the gym (where she works) "working" off the clock just cause she knew I'd be there at that time. And this was the first of many more advanced shit tests I've faced from this girl that I'll get around to posting soon.