Reminder: Don't be available for things that make you feel like shit. Delete, unfollow, unfriend, mute, block, erase, disconnect, and walk away from anyone and anything that robs you of your peace, love, and happiness.

pumpkin-pied · 2021-03-09T19:50:15+00:00

god i so needed to hear this again. no reason to keep staying in company that makes you feel like shit

GingerRabbits · 2021-03-09T20:27:21+00:00

Thank you! I really needed this reminder today, I've been trying to be there for a friend who honestly is toxic AF. Honestly she needs to figure out how to cope on her own for a while.

atreegrowsinbrixton · 2021-03-09T22:40:24+00:00

it really is so freeing. i keep unfollowing people, deleting them, deleting apps, giving myself space and quiet and it feels so nice. you never miss them

Twolipz_78 · 2021-03-09T23:48:41+00:00

Another one of my toxic exes came into my work the other day (not the last one he just drives by to stare and watch me sometimes) telling me to unblock him.

It had been long enough there were no feelings at all for him and I had him as a “friend” so I could hear about how bad his life was and feel some kind of justice. After FDS about a year ago I figured to just block him b/c all he did was complain about his girlfriend he “left” me for (i.e. did me a favor) and ask me for sex which I stopped doing a looooong time ago.

I considered just for a moment to unblock him to hear his horror stories but what for, really? To provide him with emotional labor, be his therapist, turn down sex he’s not any good at? I mean at least the last one gave oral like a boss but I never had an orgasm with any of them!

What’s the point? Y’all can stay tf blocked! You deserve not one drop of my energy and I don’t care how much money you throw around and say the sweet words you think I wanna hear!

Fuck. Off!!

_bethiebabes · 2021-03-09T22:02:47+00:00

how basic would I be to hang this in my house? 😂 because I love it!

2021-03-10T08:33:11+00:00

The thought of being with a male robs me of happiness. So I don’t ever wanna be with one unless he proves to me that he can increase the happiness in my life.

t3ddi · 2021-03-10T13:35:41+00:00

Exactly. You deserve to have preferences!

Solid-Liquid · 2021-03-10T17:51:07+00:00

I deleted my ex off of all my social media and he had a fit. I don’t have any beef with him (I have healed) but we’re 30 years old and he constantly bitches about how girls only like fuck boys and how he’s such a “nice guy”...like stfu. He constantly exhibits incel behavior on Facebook and in person and then wonders why he’s single.

gibgerbabymummy · 2021-03-12T06:04:23+00:00

Very eloquent! One of my closest friends told me this week, she has dumped ALL HER FRIENDS but 2 over lockdown as everyone just wanted to ask for things or be selfish, or haven't reached out period so she's dumped them all. She talks to me and one other person and is blank-faced ignoring toxic mums on the school run! I am gonna print this out for her 💪

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