Society pressures women to find an SO asap. It labels women who stay single when they're past a certain age was "unwanted" and "undesirable". Honestly, don't let society pressure you to date.

Finding a HVM is never meant to be easy. The truth is HVM are a minority. Among this small minority of men, you will only be compatible with a small number fo them. And then both of you have to be single and like each other. If you don't get along with your siblings, then getting along with someone unrelated to you is even harder.

Oh, and don't forget there's no specific "way" to meet HVM as HVM are not particularly clustered in certain areas or events. Hot people work in the modeling industry, rich people cluster in golf clubs, but there's nothing equivalent specific for HVM. Part of being HV means following your heart and doing what makes you happy so HVM are dispersed all over society as each of them will have his own passions.

Does this mean you have to lower your standards? No. Dating a LVM or a guy you don't have feelings for will obly bring more misery in the long run. And if you meet the HVM of your dreams while in a relationship with someone else, then it will only create more problems for you.

Don't see yourself as "unwanted and undesirable" because you're single. The truth is the odds are really against you that you'll find a single HVM you're compatible with and both of you like each other in a romantic manner. It's just a statistically improbability. And yes, this applies to everyone including women labeled as extremely desirable by men such as supermodels. Just because supermodels are swarmed with men doesn't mean those men are HV. There's nothing wrong with being single and happy by yourself.