An Odd Experience I Had With A Woman Yesterday

QuickDrawDinoHunter · 2021-05-27T21:54:05+00:00

She didnt think you were man enough for her. Only guys who can juggle 30 chainsaws while spitting fire and playing Free Bird are enough for her.

BuildItMakeIt · 2021-05-27T22:38:51+00:00

She was trying to introduce herself into your experience, in hopes that it would result in free attention and validation for her.

When you asked her to join you, she realized it was going to require skill and effort, and she was no longer interested... because she could only accept free attention and validation, so anything with effort is an immediate no-go.

Snowflakes today are incapable of anything more than mashing a phone screen with their fat fingers. Too addicted to smartphones to be able to stay present in the real world.

53withtrollhair · 2021-05-27T21:56:01+00:00

They want to prove to you they are better at something than you.

Better at being a cvnt.

Blissbynature · 2021-05-28T00:45:02+00:00

I think she was trying to put you into a mode where you were working to impress her.

"Look at what I can do, do you approve? Are you impressed? What do you think?"

I think she wanted to feel a sexual power trip at your expense. At least, that would be my guess.

FanofLemmy · 2021-05-27T22:39:49+00:00

"About as well as you juggling cock from one hole to the next."

m1ghty_b4g · 2021-05-28T01:58:31+00:00

Women are also strange in the way they approach too, they think they control every social situation until a guy doesn't give shit to them.

In that moment they, even if don't find the guy attractive, will do weird things to get his attention, I really enjoy having this behaviour of being deaf or blind around women, they don't talk to me coz they clearly see I don't even turn my sight to them. If they approach I cut off the talking as soon as possible with short sentences. Works every time.

AccomplishedAndHappy · 2021-05-27T21:35:18+00:00

It's actually remarkably simple, when you view it through the framework that; all women crave attention, whether good or bad.

You were doing something which got you attention in a public place, she was jealous and had to make it about herself. Also, it gave her an opportunity to get more attention for herself through association; e.g., by associating with you, she was getting attention indirectly by being seen talking to you (someone getting direct attention).

Also, If they see a man doing a hobby he loves, they feel obliged to go in an shit all over him and his hobby. It's the same reason a man cannot come home after a hard days work and relax on the sofa and unwind. His wife/girlfriend hates to see him enjoying himself in a way which does not revolve around her; thus, she feels obliged to fuck it up for him and nag him to do something, accuse him of being lazy etc even though she probably spent the whole day watching TV in between eating junk food and getting banged by Chad/Tyrone.

plamplamthrow0322 · 2021-05-27T23:27:12+00:00

Like the top comment says she was just sizing you up based on juggler status.

I work out in a local park and its quite normal to have husbands bring their girlfriend over to where i'm doing pullups and pop off a few just so they can act "alpha" around their wife or something retarded. This is a super common thing i see. Its funny though because they pop off maybe 3 and act all hard but i am there everyday always putting in work. Then you get single women that just show up out of nowhere randomly deciding they want to do pullups too, miraculously at the same time you happened to be there of course~! and these women do the same thing, basically come over and the whole reason they're there isn't to work out, its just to size you up or compare themselves to you or others and determine what you worth is as a man in that space of a few minutes. I've had some people talk to me but its rare, most of them are smarmy assholes that assume i'm cocky or whatever without even having an open mind.

Meanwhile, some incel looking somalian kid was at the bars yesterday and i helped him work on pullup progressions and gave him good workout advice and encouraged him to get into the habit. He struck up a conversation with me out of curiosity, and we had fun trading stories of pullups and workout frustratinos. I would take the weird somalian incel kid anyday over these fucking any of these fucking normies, man or woman because he at least had that understanding of what its like to have people judge you and make assumptions without trying to even get to know you even a little bit. And more so, i didn't feel like i was being judged solely based on the few minutes he saw me doing pullups like all the other retards at the park do. At the end of the day, its just a hobby, but everyone seems to act like they are qualified to judge your entire worth based on what you do for personal enjoyment and how good you are at it, or how good they *think* you are at it.

jabbercockey · 2021-05-28T03:17:13+00:00

I doubt she actually was friends with celebrity juggler. She may have met them once at a party or knew a girl who was sleeping with him.
Girls get a lot of mileage out of being in a scene but not actually participating. Groupies, but they don't actually play instruments or sports etc.
They may own a guitar but only know part of one song.
I also learned back during my dating site days that women get a lot of mileage out of doing something once. Saw a lot of activities listed under hobbies like horseback riding or traveling. etc.
Under intensive question you find they were only ever on a horse once that was led by a tether the whole time. But she really wants to learn!
I'm going to guess your girl has a slight interest in juggling. Maybe thought she could pick up some pointers from you. When you showed some real skill she quickly became intimidated that you would see her as a rank amateur so she just left.

Proof-System · 2021-05-28T03:04:06+00:00

She was nervous and had poor social skills. Most people do these days. You asked her to do something that she probably couldn't do, so she bailed awkwardly. Honestly it's hard to read too much more into your story.

Aussie_Chart_Trader · 2021-05-28T02:34:55+00:00

Juggle on, my friend.

variedpageants · 2021-05-28T10:31:20+00:00

There are two questions here: (1) why did she talk to you in the first place? Could be that she was attracted to you. But don't assume that. Could also be that she was bored (maybe cell service was bad in that park and it'd been more than two minutes since a man entertained her). Could also be that, since she was also friends with the other juggler person, she was looking to set up a contest or competition between you - a shit test, basically.

Question (2) why did she phrase it that way? She could have phrased it in a neutral way, as just a question. Instead, she phrased it in a way that assumed you were a poser, assumed you were "just holding them." That's a classic type of shit test - a challenge more than a question. But that doesn't necessarily mean she's interested in you. Women have dudes (simps) coming up to them trying to impress them 24/7. Women eventually develop an attitude where they look down on men because of this treatment. So, it could be that she's just a bitch.

As an aside, when a woman asks you something like this, your first response should always be to dismiss her. If a man asks the same question, you could say, "yeah man, I can juggle a bit." But if a woman asks, you should answer with something like "what's juggling?" Her response will tell you if she was ever actually interested you.

If she stays in bitch mode - if her response is anything negative or challenging, just ignore her - literally just stop talking. A girl who likes you will break character, smile, giggle, something along those lines. Then you will have passed the test (if you care)

Stranger-dead · 2021-05-27T21:58:50+00:00

According to her, you were "mansplaining" when you asked if she knew anything about juggling, despite the fact that she obviously knew nuts about it

deepspace7 · 2021-05-28T04:50:55+00:00

Don’t get mad. Just see her as a shrub, that’s part of the park landscape. You’re indifferent to the shrub as you are to her.

techstural · 2021-05-28T05:41:56+00:00

Women are attracted to anyone who draws attention to themselves, because they think they will be able to draw some of that attention away (toward themselves) (by virtue of their feminine allure). Still, you must demonstrate submission in support of their objectives in order to be worthy of their association (in which they will exploit you).

darzamat · 2021-05-28T11:41:26+00:00

A combination of shaming + shit testing + envy that you have the capability to ATTRACT ATTENTION MORE THAN HER !! Remember that last part. Women eat, sleep, drink and breathe attention. The fact that you can juggle you can redirect more eyes on you than on her AND SHE DON'T LIKE IT !! So she tries to shame you and tryhard to proves she's "better" than you and "better than her juggler friend". She can't stand the fact that you outpower her in attracting attention with your juggling skill !

talus_slope · 2021-05-28T18:53:43+00:00

She may just have been fishing. Happened to me a few times. She checks you out, decides you are not worth her time for whatever reason, and moves on. No emotional involvement. Just another predator sizing up the prey.

Putrid-Beyond-2494 · 2021-05-28T06:10:50+00:00

She was asking to look superior, then lied about being able to do it better than a friend who can juggle. Chickened out when she saw you could actually do it.

bfte2 · 2021-05-28T09:45:14+00:00

She tried to show off while at the same time shame you.

lookingforinsight2 · 2021-05-28T15:49:42+00:00

Nice to see a fellow juggler on here. Took it up about two years ago, still aiming for hitting five ball cascade (I’ve been slow due to the low ceilings where I live.)

The juggling world is pretty interesting, generally seems to contain nice and interesting people. Now I’m curious: who was the juggling friend she referred to?

TheSmartTraeder · 2021-05-27T22:21:11+00:00

She was probably reading TRP the night before and tried to AMOG you and to destroy your frame bro.

Title	An Odd Experience I Had With A Woman Yesterday
Author	imjusthereforresearc
Upvotes	97
Comments	38
Date	May 27, 2021 9:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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