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I'm watching the "happily ever after" season with them now and the finale where they're all interviewed. The fact that nobody is calling Jorge out for being a complete misogynist really irks me.

The facts are Anfisa has been 100% up front with him about wanting to marry a man with money and be spoiled. She didn't even talk to him on the dating site until he LIED about being rich. He's trying to pay the victim because she is a gold digger, but she even called him on it saying "you wouldn't be with me if I was fat and ugly". In the interview he even says when asked why he fell in love with her "THE WAY SHE LOOKS".

People want to demonize a gold digger and NOT equally demonize the other side of that transaction: A man who wants to objectify a woman. A man who wants a woman to show off to other men and a porn star looking sex toy that he basically owns. And (less so in this case but) in general a man that is usually taking advantage of an often much younger woman. This is quid pro quo, pals.

On top of this, Anfisa may have the personality of wet towel, but that doesn't come from nowhere. It has now come out that she was secretly stripping. Jorge says in the interview "it's degrading to me to have a wife that's a stripper" ... that's a very interesting thing to hear a man admit. So YES sex work is degrading and THAT is a HUUUUGE part of what men like about it. Unless it's THEIR property/wife. So lets just clear up that sex work is NOT empowering otherwise men would love their wives and daughters to be doing it.

I digress, Anfisa was probably abused and groomed as a young girl in Russia to be nothing but a sex object which is why she is this way. It's more than clear to me, does anyone else see it? Her bland personality and seemingly only care for money is probably a trauma response from being abused by the fucking patriarchy in Russia.

People need to be harder on Jorge for trying to get a sex bot for FREE and then crying about it not being his dream girl when the truth came out that he lied to get her and only wants her for her body anyways. He's a complete piece of shit. She at least has an excuse, he's just another fat entitled man who tried to get something for nothing.

Jorge is a complete pig and deserves every bit of what he got messing with Anfisa IMO.