Tea Time

HappilyMrs · 2021-06-02T12:18:55+00:00

Yesterday afternoon the weather was glorious, and I decided I wanted to go to the beach after dinner and just feel the waves and the sand. So I said "I would love to go to the beach". I then handed over the decision to him about which one to go to (two within five minute car ride, or 10+ within 30 min drive), kept things light and didn't nag when it looked like there was nowhere to park, kept calm when it was really busy and gave him the time to do what he most loves at the beach, photography. DS and I walked in the sand and played in the sea. It was a really lovely evening, and I felt my efforts at being more positive paying off.

There was an issue with one of his camera films, and he was cross with himself and annoyed. Rather than do like I always would have by minimising it "Oh well, doesn't matter, it's just a film", I made sure to provide loving support. He rapidly became less cross about it. Maybe it was fluke, but I like to think my changes are doing us all good.

Today is a home day as the weather is very variable and we're going to have busy weekend. Oven cleaning is commencing, how does the glass get like that?! Thank goodness for Stardrops Pink Stuff. Planning to make my first apron when I get some self-care time, I have some fabrics that will do as a test run.

Hope you're all having a good day

acgs1995 · 2021-06-02T17:22:01+00:00

I started journaling again, after 5 years... I did this mainly because I feel lonely lately and it always helped me.

My job and my husband’s job are getting more demanding everyday. No time to clock in or out. I wish I had more time to cook for him and clean the house. Honestly I’m kinda sad right now. It feels like we never have time for anything else. Wish things would be different, but for now we have to be thankful for our jobs.

I wish I had the time and patience to be more feminine. I can’t do anything beyond the basics. Our marriage is great and the hardships brought us together but I wish we could enjoy life a little bit now and then.

ezer_kenegdo · 2021-06-02T13:18:05+00:00

We have a counseling session together today, and I'm nervous and excited for what we can accomplish and make us stronger. We are going for lunch together afterwards which makes me super happy because even a quick lunch date stolen is more than we normally get.

My house is slowly getting back to normal from the holiday and our roommate moving in. A little more work and it will be back in shape for another weekend.

I'm exhausted and not coherent. Hoping for a nap today.

FilmWonderful2468 · 2021-06-02T13:59:26+00:00

Need tips for boredom / loneliness from SAHWs or home office crew. My spouse is going away with a friend for a couple of days and since I have been in home office the last 12 months, I noticed being lonely/bored more often. Before working from home, I never minded if my spouse was away for a weekend or so, but I notice that I get a bit sad staying home alone. I think it’s just too much alone time at home for me. How do you keep busy / enertained?

customerservicevoice · 2021-06-08T00:34:10+00:00

i’ve been a lurker for awhile, but wasn’t really sure I fit in. some things have shifted in my life so am trying to find a new subreddit home and after reading the intro i realize i might (just might) belong here. I’m so happy. i use the word ‘value’ a lot and when i saw it in the intro i was ecstatic. I’ve been made to feel bad or dirty in the past for these thoughts and there was a likeminded community just waiting for me!

getting real serious about my weight loss. when i snap, i snap and become hyper focused. work is about to get really interesting with patios opening up. (i’m a waitress.)

i’m almost starting to enjoy this new phase in life. overall, happy wife.

Title	Tea Time
Author	blushingoleander
Upvotes	13
Comments	25
Date	June 2, 2021 12:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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