Had a plate for a while. 18 y/o I (22yo) met at some serving Job I had for a bit. We had fun for a few months, then I Soft Next'd for probably double the time we saw each other, until she inevitably boomeranged back. This is the journey of the spinning of that plate. That experience has really solidified my beliefs in TRP Philosophy and I am here to share that with you.

Long Story short, through a process of passing shit-tests, building mystery and attraction, Push & Pull tactics, and Pre-Selection, I took her virginity from the line of blue-pilled men ready to kiss her feet.

We had our fun here and there, and eventually "the talk" came. To which I just laid it out flat...

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"What we have is fun. It's exciting but casual, stress-free. And that's because there's no expectations. We're just experiencing each other and having fun along the way. There's no labels. Labeling this just makes it complicated because with a label, it comes with expectations and restrictions. I'm 22, and I want to experience the world and the people in it. There's so much out there and being exclusive with someone narrows the ability at which I can experience the world. I like what we have, Let's not complicate things."

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She agree'd and we proceeded as normal, only this time she seemed more content and giddy when we went out together.

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Affirmation #1

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Frame is very important. We continued the fun between us but under the clear operation of within my frame. And as far as I could tell, she enjoyed my honesty.

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Affirmation #2

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Be unapologetically honest. I learned this from No More Mr. Nice Guy. If I lied, not only to her, but to myself, in what I was truly expecting from our "relationship" just to not "hurt her feelings", it would only cause damage and complications further down. There are ~3.5 Billion other females in the world. Be honest, and if she doesn't see eye-to-eye with you, there is always going to be millions of others that do. This will increase your experience in life. Not only that, Always being honest to yourself and the women in your life will only weed out those that will ultimately be a waste of time, resulting in you building meaningful connections with those that you truly and genuinely connect with.

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Eventually, the fun stopped once she said to me...

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"I can't do this anymore..."

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I knew what she was talking about but I humored her. Eventually she said she loved me and nobody else, yadda yadda. Wanted to date me. She want's to stop what we have since it won't become what she wants (a relationship), but doesn't wan't to lose it all together and just "Doesn't know what what to do."

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I made it real simple. I once heard a quote or read it somewhere that said "You're the average of everyone you surround yourself with". In relation to this, I only keep around people who are strong willed and have a determination for what they want. I told her.

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"You seem really undecided, so I'll make the decision for you. It was fun, but goodbye."

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Some might call this harsh. The richest man in the world never bought a second of time. It's the one resource you truly cannot get back, and I didn't want to waste weeks of it going back and forth. Once a woman has doubt, there is no going back. It's over. (This is especially true for those blue-pilled men in relationships that continue to try and "make it work" when their SO already said they want to break-up. If you're worried about losing her, you already lost her.

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Months go by, spinning various plates, good fun. Then I get a text out of the blue one day from her.

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"I miss you."

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Affirmation #3

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After a break-up/cut-off, go no-contact, and if you held frame and played it right throughout, they will inevitably boomerang back. Might be in 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years, but you will hear from her again.

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Thought to myself "Why not.", so I responded

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"Sounds like something I can fix"

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We setup a meet up for that Monday with her full enthusiasm.

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She comes over and within 10 minutes, she's straddling me naked.

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Affirmation #4

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YOU and YOU ALONE, through physical behaviour, mannerisms, and diction, set the expectations of what kind of relationship you and a woman have. Whether it be purely friend, or something more. Women don't put men in the friend-zone. Men put themselves there. Now, we've seen each other sexually before, so we already know what kind of relationship there is between us, so this applies loosely, but this Affirmation was worth noting.

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As she's sitting there, we talk for a few seconds until she says..

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"Yea, I have a boyfriend now."

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Holy shit. So much has happened in that one sentence.

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Affirmation #5

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Alpha Widows. I can confidently say I am the best this girl has had, in terms of the quality of man, so far. She in absolutely intoxicated by me. It is what it is. Learn to spot Alpha Widows and you will learn quickly who to avoid in putting your trust and security into, thus saving you turmoil and time. In this case, chances are betabux buddy was just a substitute she found in order to keep her mind off of me, but I couldn't help but imagine being in that poor guy's situation.

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Affirmation #6

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Women are NOT the innocent princess that movies and pop-culture makes most men believe they are. They like to fuck. They are irrational and act in the moment based off the emotions they are feeling currently. She missed me in that moment, which is why she is with her sneaky-link behind her boyfriend's back.

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Time passes. We have our fun, I go to the gym and she follows me. Brought her along cuz why not, I enjoy the conversation.

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During this, she says...

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"Oh my god, he won't stop texting me."

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"He just.. responds so fast."

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"He's just always lovey dovey. Ugh."

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Affirmation #7

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Guys. TEXT ONLY FOR LOGISTICS. Leave all the "get to know you" for face-to-face. Constant texting subconsciously tells women you have nothing going for yourself, and if the highlight of your day is texting her, what little do you do with your life? Not to mention how clingy it makes you seem.

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Affirmation #8

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She says "He just responds so fast". It takes the excitement and mystery away. You responding instantly to every text of hers eliminates the mystery to her of "What is he doing right now?". It stops her hamster from spinning. The greatest currency we have to offer, as Men, is our time and attention to the women we keep around. When you don't respond in a timely manner, it causes her hamster to spin and she creates some type of image of you in her head. Use this to your advantage. Initially you can do this on purpose, but the point of TRP Ideology is to create a life so fulfilling and meaningful, drive by such deep desire and passion for your goals, that you are just naturally too busy to be texting. I'm a licensed Skydiver, and in this case it generates, in her mind...

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"I bet he's jumping out of an airplane right now. Wow..."

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Meanwhile Blue-Pilled Billy is instantly responding back about how he's on his 6th run of rewatching the entirety of The Office on Netflix.

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I respond hours at a time, sometime's days. If I even respond at all. I don't do this purposefully, I have just digested enough of TRP Philosophy that I am actively outside accomplishing my goals, whether it be networking for business contacts, making content (I am a Film Production Major), or trying to complete objectives in my Skydives. My point is, Text only for logistics and it eliminates the possibility of you saying something retarded, and helps build that aura of mystery women are so attracted to.

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These are my thoughts throughout my experience with her. She's fun company and a good in bed, but for sure not something to be exclusive with. I feel for her boyfriend, poor guy. And for those you of against the immorality of sleeping with taken women. She WANTED to be fucked by someone else. It just happened to be me. Whether I say no or not, she is GOING to be fucked by someone else other than her boyfriend because she has ALREADY decided on doing it. "If it's going to be someone, might aswell be me." As one Redditor put it.

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What experiences have you had with women that ring out TRP principles in your mind?