I unfortunately , tend to run across a lot of LVM because of my hobbies (I’m very sporty and play pickup).

This one guy didn’t seem to be an LVM, but when I talked to him it felt off . He said he liked my friend , and wanted to date her.

But when speaking to him privately, the absolute vitriol he spewed was sick.

Keep in mind, this man is tall, good looking , makes good money and takes care of himself.

But when I was on the phone to him, he talked about how to have leverage over a woman, and why it’s so important, and everything .

Because he was insecure about being emotionally hurt when he’s never been emotionally hurt before ..

And it was just sickening .

But to my best friend, he was kind , gentle , accommodating, texting her for weeks, bought her dinner out of the blue(and sent it to our house) , and asked her on a walk.

After warning my friend, she broke it off .

Please keep your eyes and ears peeled for LVM . They are getting better at acting .

However, a pro of this is that I now know what to look for in LVM (keeping you strung along ) and other such tips.