It seems that some modern women believe the concept of compromise is inherently oppressive and unfair. because they are not used to it, they never had to compromise ever, especially hot women.

some women seem to think that they don’t need to compromise in any area, and believe

"because i'm cute sally that gets a lot of attention from men thus far, i deserve the best of the best and any successful man is just lucky to have me"

Womens mating strategy

generally, women with options look for men wealthier than them, more successful. especially educated women, they especially are more likely to be like

"i earn 100k a year, why on earth would i stoop so low to date uneducated less successful men, i deserve men who earn at least my salary but preferably more”

And thats fair to an extent, pregnancy leaves women to be very vulnerable, they need a man that earns enough money to be able to support her and the kids so that she doesn’t have to work in such a vulnerable time. I as a man cant complain about that, i accept it. And dont mind it. Only average loser men complain about that.

Mens mating strategy

men with options look for youth, beauty, compliance, peace and health in their partners, and generally, if they can, they would want many of those very women whenever they want. They don’t care about women's wealth and status. Especially successful high-status men. They already have that handled themselves.

mens ideal dating/mating strategy is to have one main woman they know birthed their children, aka not a whore that they can trust. they want to support that woman solely to allow her to raise those kids the best she can for him, while he focuses on building a castle around that family. expanding his wealth and influence. but as any king in history (aka any successful men in history), they also want and had access to many other women aswell, whenever they wanted to. That is mens ideal dating strategy

So there is the difference in dating/mating strategies between women and men, well mainly high status women and men.

(Average people in general already know they need to compromise somewhere so this isn’t news to them.)

Women want the richest wealthiest men they can get, and rich wealthy men want a youthful peaceful main woman that he provides for and take care of his kids, and also have access to many hot young women to have sex with on the side.

The concept of compromise

So as a woman if you're waiting at the finish line aka only willing to date already established successful men, and you are not willing to date averagely wealthy men, aka you’re not willing to compromise on your mating strategy at all

Dont expect those same successful men to drop their dating/mating strategy just because you don’t like it.

That would be highly unfair, and irrational.

So the compromise is

if you’re a generally attractive woman with options and you want a loyal man that is willing to compromise on his mating strategy of having more than one woman.

Then marry and date an average to slightly above average man and help him grow into a successful man, therefore you have more leverage, that man would be an asshole if he didnt also compromise on his mating strategy in that scenario.

But if youre not willing to compromise on your mating strategy (like most women aren't ), then don’t complain that the successful men you date, always see and date other women or escorts on the side aswell.