The -3 theory.

RedPillDetox · 2021-07-16T16:12:44+00:00

Even if it is or was true, you're talking about statistical averages. I'm objectively ugly as fuck. Yet i've had an attractive girlfriend for 5 years and had casual sex. Had i listened to any of those black pill fucks, i'd have never had sex.

AnnVealsMayonegg · 2021-07-16T17:30:26+00:00

Redpill is racist and most of them are sad white supremacists. Don’t let people so riddled with their own messy issues inform your view of yourself.

j_lyn91 · 2021-07-16T17:28:54+00:00

While some cultures have 'westernized' standards of beauty and that's fucking unfortunate, trying to sort people by numbers based on race is pretty dumb and pointless. I've never thought someone was any uglier because of what colour they are. And if someone's dumb enough to think you being Indian is a negative factor, you wouldn't want to date them anyway.

cunningcaring · 2021-07-16T17:50:47+00:00

Ignore the red pill and the black pill.

copious_cunnilingus · 2021-07-16T16:05:42+00:00

As with most of the pill generalizations, each person is different. Where one group of women doesn't mind skin color or ethnicity, there will be another group that does. A good looking Indian man with a good personality and mental health will still find success in dating, it might just not be with every woman. The -3 rule is an arbitrary number assigned by some troll who just wants to see people dance as he shoots them in the feet. Get off all the pills, detox, and go back into the real world.

CitrusyDeodorant · 2021-07-16T20:52:40+00:00

See your main problem right here is that you don't immediately discard this dumb bullshit. Unsub from red/blackpill content, go out and start interacting with actual people.

Left_Yogurtcloset779 · 2021-07-16T21:32:37+00:00

I wouldn’t worry, I find that with women we don’t really care about that so much, it really is what’s inside. I’m black and use to be involved with an Indian guy. I didn’t care that he was Indian

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2021-07-16T17:03:12+00:00

I once dated a guy who was half Indian and half black and I'm white. I don't think that's really true, tbh. Sure, some people have their preference on skin color, but it doesn't mean everyone is like that. I guess it depends on where you live and what kind of girl you're going for. If you live in the deep south like I do in the US, you'll probably find more racist white women or women who prefer lighter colored skin.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2021-07-17T17:51:36+00:00

Anecdotally, a son of a friend (a fellow Indian immigrant) got married to a white western woman. Both bride and groom are good looking. Two of my nephews in the West are also engaged/married to white women. So it does happen and the "blackpill" claim is untrue, at least in a few cases. Most women (including white women) probably prefer to marry within their own ethnic group.

If you are living in India why are you so concerned whether white women find you attractive?

Academic_Type624 · 2021-07-16T18:31:33+00:00

I'm a woman and have dated men that objectively aren't that attractive. They had lots of other things to offer and I enjoyed being with them.

At the end of the day even if a guy was the most gorgeous guy I'd ever met, if he wasn't someone I found interesting then I'd get bored quickly and would rather be with Mr 4/10 that I actually had fun with.

Character-Mistake660 · 2021-07-16T19:07:10+00:00

Well my father is Indian and my mother is white so it’s not like it never happens. And I’ve met other people with an Indian dad/white (or non Indian) mom before too, so it’s not like I’m a unique case. In the West, the main thing that makes white people see Indians as unattractive is that tv shows and movies stereotype Indian men as super nerdy and awkward, and in some parts of the country white people have never met or been friends with an actual Indian person. But in someplace like California, there’s a lot more diversity and cultural mixing and interracial dating is extremely common.

Look at Dev Patel for example. He’s popular in the West and there are lots of girls who consider him extremely attractive.

softnmushy · 2021-07-17T07:03:08+00:00

For many western women, a man with dark skin is considered attractive. Taste varies widely so you cannot make generalizations.

If you are trying to date western women, the biggest disadvantage for you will be using information you learned from the redpill and blackpill groups. Those groups are mainly targeted to men who are very unsuccessful with women. Most western women want nothing to do with these kind of guys.

Another issue is major cultural differences between India and the west. My understanding is that it is common in India to expect women (and a wife) to be relatively subservient to men. Most western women will react extremely negatively to that. Many western men think of men as equals, so why would a western woman date a guy who is not willing to accept that?

Practical-Fee5587 · 2021-07-17T14:26:50+00:00

No race is inherently more attractive than another. Most people have a personal preference which, is ok but, no race is inherently more attractive than another.

Just make sure you're doing everything that is in your control to look good.

Shower, good hair cut, good hygiene, clean teeth, tidy beard, clean face

If you can afford it; fragrance, nice clothes

TimelyVisitor · 2021-07-17T15:45:19+00:00

Actually I've found that in the West, women (and men) find "foreigners" extra appealing. Being from India is to your advantage. I dated a Kuwaiti guy that was indian and Arabic and we had a lovely relationship for many years. No, Indian guys are not at a disadvantage but that's my personal opinion. A lot of people in my circle back then tried to steal my boyfriend as he was a very charming good natured guy and very handsome. I also had some other people tell me he wasn't attractive and that I could do better, this just boils down to everyone having their own preferences. (Some people love blondes some people are crazy for dark eyes, dark hair) I found him gorgeous and we were deeply in love.

People underrate personality as it's a huge deciding factor for relationships. We broke up because he cheated on me as well as the cultural difference being too different.

LadylikeElectricland · 2021-07-17T16:04:12+00:00

wtf have I just read!!!!

CamilleNous · 2021-07-17T18:18:40+00:00

Look upon "Argumentum ex culo"

Former-Garbage6576 · 2021-07-18T13:39:26+00:00

Ah yes, 8/10 Same as when people are asked if they think they are better than the average driver - almost all think they are. Ofc we all are nearly perfect. Lmao.

j_arbuckle2012 · 2021-07-18T15:30:21+00:00

Red pill and blackpill spaces are extremely, virulently racist against Desis. They will say or do anything to get you to believe, as an Indian guy, that you are somehow lesser because of your Indian heritage. Don't play into their games.

Title	The -3 theory.
Author	atheistvegeta
Upvotes	0
Comments	58
Date	July 16, 2021 3:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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