Update on the guy who found his wifes gangbang sex tape. He takes her back, wife offers to bring other women into the relationship to keep him happy. /r/Relationship_Advice goes crazy, calls OP a jerk, crazy, narcissistic, immature, and says his wife owes him no sexual attention, etc.

realniggasstandup · 2013-12-17T02:32:27+00:00

This nigga's a fool.

Clauderoughly · 2013-12-17T05:05:21+00:00

"Your Honor, my husband abused me terribly! He made me commit all these awful sex acts! That's why I am divorcing him ! Also, as compensation, I need 90% of his assets, because I am so traumatized!"

This guy is going to get owned, one way or the other.

DeckofLuckyStrikes · 2013-12-17T02:37:06+00:00

...at least he acknowledges TRP's opinion...

EeeeeeevilMan · 2013-12-17T09:52:02+00:00

Goddamn, that comment section rustled my jimmies so hard, I think it might've blown them clean off. I'm all taint down there now.

Between those sick fucks in r/sex saying a chick fucking her dog for years is A-OK, and this, I'm just about convinced the sky's the limit when it comes to white knighting on Reddit.

Gangbangs, dog-fucking, etc. No, no, boys, don't you see? She chose to be with you and that's all in the past. Aren't you lucky? What you need is counseling, to try and understand why you have so much insecurity.

Edit to add: Here's the dog link.

http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1s1xr4/found_out_my_wife_used_to_have_sex_with_her_dog/

Archwinger · 2013-12-17T03:41:53+00:00

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kudosxv · 2013-12-17T02:41:46+00:00

Oh Christ. He fell for the old "use sex as a weapon" trick women always pull out. He's doomed.

She even brought up bringing other women into the bedroom knowing almost any man would pounce on that. God, she is good. The question is who will enjoy the other women more? Him or her? Hmmm... maybe he should question her motives more? :)

2013-12-17T05:57:07+00:00

Guy is fucked. He still after all this time is saying "WOMEN, please help me understand this."

The few cards he has to make his wife actually motivated to change (dread game), he throws away. Wife proposes he can see other women / he can have athreesome, he says "no baby I wouldn't want to do anything to make you sad". Now that she knows he ain't going anywhere, no way is she going to change for longer than 2-3 weeks. A few BJs, he is back to being beta bucks again.

phasetwenty · 2013-12-17T06:56:36+00:00

What kills me about this is that he's all but assured he's never going to get what he wants from her: her desire. They talked it out and reached some kind of agreement but there's just one problem. You cannot negotiate desire.

2013-12-17T03:18:23+00:00

lol cuckold 101

well played wifey

Bobwayne17 · 2013-12-17T11:33:36+00:00

Holy shit.

Threads like this are why I love TRP.

Here I am, sitting reading these fucking psychos give this guy life ruining advice, and I just can't believe only a few people feel how I do.

Then I came here, and found someplace that shared my ideals and opinions, open to intelligent discussion, and helping better each other as men.

TRP is amazing.

themoor · 2013-12-17T02:57:16+00:00

She's just not turned on by him and wants to keep him around by using another woman.

How long do you supposed that will last?

He's being tooled and she's the instrument. Textbook

iseeyou1312 · 2013-12-17T03:51:16+00:00

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2013-12-17T03:45:33+00:00

That's just funny and tragic all at once.

jobs33ker · 2013-12-17T07:04:22+00:00

I thought over time you’d open up to me sexually. But the reason why the video crushed me were those random guys that didn’t commit there life to you, got more out of you sexually than me who lived his life for you

Jesus what a fucking tool.

randomkloud · 2013-12-17T05:53:57+00:00

So now she says "I've always wanted to be your slut, you just never asked". True or not doesn't matter. This really reinforces RP. I don't blame the wife at all, she did what was best for herself. Unfortunately this Master Beta never unlocked the potential.

This is a temporary fix at best. By the end of the year she might suggest bringing in a guy to "spice up" their life, it's only fair after all since he got a girll.....

2013-12-17T05:17:34+00:00

Is his wife Lisa Ann? Cuz you know, that's how she started.

gopher88 · 2013-12-17T04:51:47+00:00

Wow... They're going to town on him in the comments

SuperNinKenDo · 2013-12-17T07:25:39+00:00

What a dumb fucking loser.

Cyralea · 2013-12-17T14:29:08+00:00

Feel sorry for the guy. He wants so badly to go back to a place of stability that he's willing to take any out. Willing to listen to any lie, hamster away any inconvenient truth.

I hope the OP of that thread reads this: Listen, your wife has every incentive to lie to your face right now. She has nothing to lose and everything to gain. It's like when a girl is caught cheating, she'll go all apologetic and do anything (in the short term) to make up for her indiscretions. That's what your wife is doing right now. The only thing that she's sincere about is wanting her stability back, your feelings be damned.

There is no perfect solution to this, stop looking for that magic golden ticket out of this shit-show. Do what's necessary and prepare yourself for your next stage in life, try to get partial custody of your daughter and kick your manipulative wife to the curb. No one deserves to be treated so poorly when you're by all accounts the perfect husband.

DoxasticPoo · 2013-12-17T17:22:04+00:00

"But the reason why the video crushed me were those random guys that didn’t commit there life to you, got more out of you sexually than me who lived his life for you."

Says everything I'd need to know about her.

selfsufficientnigga · 2013-12-17T19:51:45+00:00

There's one point they work really hard to ignore. They keep trying to shame the guy, with constructions like 'she hates sex like that', 'she wanted to be pure for him' etc. Any kind of hamstering that they think will work.

I would like to see all these whoreslut apologists try to explain this:

If it really is so, if she didn't want to do it because she hates that stuff, WHY DID SHE KEEP THE GOD DAMN PORN TAPE?

niceCockaroma · 2013-12-17T13:19:54+00:00

If i found out that my n"new" car was used as a taxi i would give the "new" car back to the ....man that hurts.

yummybits · 2013-12-17T16:32:23+00:00

I think he made the best of a shitty thing.

Now he is in a position where he has freedom and a wife.

Also he knows who he is married to, so I would think he wont put her in a pedestal at all.

He will now be the absolute boss in his house.

ar10308 · 2013-12-17T17:09:08+00:00

He's finally starting to get properly pissed about this.

" how far is that feminist dildo shoved up your ass?"

2013-12-17T08:02:36+00:00

I remember the original post. If I were in his shoes, I probably wouldn't throw the marriage away, but I'd take her up on her offer to do anything sexually, and make her do the most depraved stuff I could think of, stuff that makes 9 1/2 Weeks look like an Amish church service (and I'm really not a kinky guy, honestly).

Aldovar · 2013-12-17T15:53:17+00:00

I didn't see a post here regarding the first update, where he initially called the marriage off. It seems that his brother had a lot to do with him breaking his frame. Make sense since it is OP's older brother and that can convey a level of trust, but I'm guessing OP's bro thought he should do what was best for the both of them (and family) and not what's best for OP.

He's maintaining skepticism of his wife's rationalizations over the sex. Not sure if he'll believe the comments on that but it's a faint sign.

Wonder if we'll get an update 3.

Doctor_Mayhem · 2013-12-17T16:08:36+00:00

Jesus, somebody PM this poor bastard and tell him that the rest of Reddit is an absolute SEWER when it comes to any kind of relationship advice. Get his ass over to TRP.

niceCockaroma · 2013-12-17T18:47:41+00:00

If i went to buy a "new" car and after 1 year i find out it was used 2,3 years as a TAXI i will Give it Back!

lucasmello · 2013-12-17T19:31:41+00:00

I would never look my wife in the face. If I was pissed and inclined I would have a harem, film it, pack my bags, leave the tape on the bed and go to a hotel. Then I would file a divorce for custody of the kids. She will cheat on him again that is a guarantee.

Possumsgrease · 2013-12-18T06:21:09+00:00

its easier to break the family than to deal with a woman you cant trust

2014-01-20T11:53:31+00:00

This guy deserves everything that happnes to him now.

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