Another reason why you shouldn't feel bad for single moms. They prefer "taken" men. Preselection is scientifically proven.

TempestTcup · 2014-01-07T18:25:43+00:00

Every time I leave my husband at the bar to use the restroom, when I get back, some chick is sitting or standing next to him trying to get his attention. Every. Time.

mistonag · 2014-01-07T20:45:09+00:00

According to a recent poll, most women who engage in mate poaching do not think the attached status of the target played a role in their poaching decision,

This is why the red pill works as opposed to other dating advice (especially that given by women). Women don't know what turns them on. Women aren't consciously trying to be malicious and taking another woman's man, but it is in their biology.

notseriouslyserious · 2014-01-07T19:02:03+00:00

What better proof a man can commit and is attractive, than that he’s already committed and found to be attractive? But logic would dictate that if an attached man can be poached, he isn’t very committed at all.

So it’s kind of a catch-22: you can’t have him, but you want him; and if you get him, he’s no good.

mydarkmeatrises · 2014-01-08T00:17:23+00:00

I will NEVER. EVER. forget my first lesson of the nature of females. I was fresh out of high school walking in the mall with my then girlfriend. I noticed something different as we walked and I turned to her and asked:

"Why are all these girls looking at me? I never get this attention when I'm alone" She replied, "Exactly. The only reason why they're looking at you is because you're with me."

Huginn__and__Muninn · 2014-01-07T20:01:28+00:00

Very true. I recently had a ONS with a single mom "despite" my wingman telling her and her two married friends that we both already had girlfriends (true in his case, untrue in mine). I got the single mom and he could have closed one of the married women but decided not to in the end. That night opened my eyes up to a whole new level of red pill for me.

RelevantConfession · 2014-01-07T22:14:49+00:00

Personally I would never mess with a single mom, their chances of getting abortions are slimmer.

through_a_ways · 2014-01-07T21:07:22+00:00

This experiment has been done more than once, with the same results.

This may be because an attached man has demonstrated his ability to commit and in some ways his qualities have already been ‘‘pre-screened” by another woman."

Bullshit, it's not about his ability to commit. The actual attraction comes from the fact that he's popular.

If it was about his ability to commit, they'd just go for a groveling gamma who obeyed their every whim.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-01-07T21:38:09+00:00

Once, I got some LMR from a girl with the "I have a boyfriend!" line. On a hunch (this was years before TRP for me), I responded with, "Well, I have a girlfriend." Instant demolition of LMR.

[deleted] · 2014-01-07T21:12:35+00:00

No Leftovers Not Now Not Ever. Society has no shortage of chumps for those females and their baggage.

Clauderoughly · 2014-01-07T21:14:00+00:00

As a married guy, I get much more attention from women than when I was single.

Which is fine by me.

Manuel_S · 2014-01-08T00:44:14+00:00

People, there is no need for judgement here, its simply smarts.

Pre-selection is like using an index to find something. You go straight to the area that interests you.

Evolution at work, folks.

mc0079 · 2014-01-08T00:38:02+00:00

What does have to do with single moms? Nothing in the article talked about motherhood.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-08T04:33:54+00:00

Another reason why you shouldn't feel bad for single moms.

If single moms have a in-bred scientific predisposition for taken men they can't control, then shouldn't you feel bad for them?

Kepaso · 2014-01-08T07:56:34+00:00

I think i need to get myself a wedding ring.

Not a wife. Just a ring

DanReggins · 2014-01-08T00:12:32+00:00

I don't remember what publication hosted it, but before Ricky Martin had come out, he was asked what the best way to meet women was.

He said that, when a man goes to a public place, he should ALWAYS have a female with him -- even if it's his cousin or sister. As everyone here sees, it makes a lot of difference.

PaulRivers10 · 2014-01-08T03:59:58+00:00

What's with the stupidly misleading headline? The study showed that "single women" preferred taken men, not "single moms".

[deleted] · 2014-01-08T05:38:43+00:00

A 'significant' but extremely noisy and low magnitude signal of what is considered immoral behavior, being associated with a demographic that is also often associated with economic and emotional issues is far from a sufficient reason to "not feel bad" for an entire class of persons. The research highlights a behavioral pattern with single women who are ostensibly more concerned with finding a mate than taken women, and were willing to 'poach' a mate away. But small behavioral patterns are poor signals to judge the moral compass of an entire set of people who simply overlap on a single variable.

This is as bad as saying "Another reason why you shouldn't feel bad for men. They prefer fighting more than women. Propensity towards aggression is scientifically proven."

Both are stupid statements that malign the scientific method for a prior assumption based on an ideological view of the world. Ideologies are not all bad. TRP offers a substantive view on male and female interactions which is abused and ignored in common culture and academia, as common feminism is not a science. But science is not the same as inference. This is a scientific article, but your inference is poor. Don't sink to their level.

vengefully_yours · 2014-01-08T19:05:46+00:00

Hhmmm, I should buy a ring.

watersign · 2014-01-07T21:04:01+00:00

another example of hamstering. a 30% increase is pretty significant!

hamstercide · 2014-01-07T20:50:08+00:00

Where did you see anything about single mothers in this article? I'm tired of constantly seeing these projections on this sub.

redpillphd · 2014-01-08T03:29:12+00:00

I don't understand why anybody takes offence to objective Truth. Feminists have no respect for science, that's why everything they say has no backing in reality...

erickson712 · 2014-01-08T06:20:17+00:00

Judge individuals based on their attitudes and behaviors.. not based on results of a poll of a certain demographic.

[deleted] · 2014-01-07T19:51:38+00:00

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Title	Another reason why you shouldn't feel bad for single moms. They prefer "taken" men. Preselection is scientifically proven.
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	109
Comments	108
Date	January 7, 2014 6:09 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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