So I'm mostly a lurker around in these parts but I had a conversation with a female friend the other day I thought this sub might find interesting. My friend (24, Canadian, white) asked how I felt about all those "poor women" who go to join ISIS and then get abused and hurt when they arrive. I told her flat out that I didn't feel sorry for them because if someone willfully goes to join a group that is renowned for killing those it considers its enemies and then they themselves get hurt I don't feel bad for them; instead, I reserve my pity for the innocents harmed by ISIS. She then said "yeah, but those WOMEN."

Is it just me or is the media shaping the ISIS narrative so that only the men involved deserve punishment and the women are eternally portrayed as victims?