How many men here have a victim mindset?

reeeeadnendn · 2023-07-31T14:58:00+00:00

“You can’t understand someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.”

I’m sure it’s easy to resort to the desperate men on here as punching bags. You could just read and try to sympathize with the plight of the less fortunate. Or spam the same dumbass question over and over again as some sort of self righteous crusade against “incels”. Your call.

ApprehensiveMusic351 · 2023-07-31T15:29:42+00:00

I know people aren't going to have any empathy for a ugly and alone guy like myself. I don't view myself as a victim, but what if I did? It's not going to change anything. You and other women would have the same opinion about me no matter what.

Whiskeyjack1982 · 2023-07-31T16:30:43+00:00

You follow up on the question with a presupposition.

You are projecting.

A person who is not a disenfranchised man hanging out in a group of disenfranchised men trying to gaslight them into thinking that they are not disenfranchised.

What is your motive?

Why engage these people at all?

You are just starting drama for attention.

Exciting_Pay_1898 · 2023-07-31T15:57:33+00:00

What does "victim mentality" mean? Same with "defeatist attitude." I mean, most women who say they were raped also seemed to have a victim mentality to me too.

Hubris1998 · 2023-07-31T17:11:12+00:00

oh, you feel like it? then it must be true!

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-07-31T17:56:00+00:00

if you complain about having so many angry men here wtf were you thinking posting this xD

Sunshine replies?

malesareobjects · 2023-07-31T17:57:05+00:00

I don't understand why people have such a distain towards people with a victim mindset. Maybe it's because I'm autistic but I genuinely don't give a shit.

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-08-01T01:23:47+00:00

I find it incredibly curt that “victim mindset” is denoted as “all encompassing”.

The truth is there are countless factors in life where we are either lucky, unlucky or neither. It is entirely possible to not be lucky with your dating life despite effort, just as it is entirely possible to be lucky in your dating life despite no effort. It’s not a victim mindset, it’s more so your destiny/the cards you were dealt

Petrosmine · 2023-07-31T18:00:22+00:00

yeah you not the victim of anything, you just gotta be more confident

sunshinevante · 2023-07-31T16:18:45+00:00

I will say yes overall but one thing I realize for both men & women who say the dating scene sucks blah blah is they forget that being single is an option & creating community aka friends , family etc. for women, female friendships are more emotionally fulfilling then with men ( those who dont live their life centered around male validation and/or romantic relationships)

yet this being said, ive heard and observed male friendships arent as emotionally nurturing as female friendships. my guy friend has a hard time opening up bc he is so used to guy friends just telling him to suck it up & I have guy friends who will share more personal things w me then their guy friends.

I wonder if it would be different if men had emotionally fulfilled relationships w other men as women do if things would be different but that open another can of worms

MistyMaisel · 2023-07-31T16:25:48+00:00

Honestly, I think this depends on the pill. Black pill 100% of them do.

Red pill is harder to call. I'd say probably 33% think of themselves as having a "winner" attitude (although, I would typically call it a predatory mindset), 34% are just normal blokes who happen to think some uncharitable things about women, and 33% are total victim mindsets.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-07-31T15:40:55+00:00

Probably most of them, “I’m a victim of a society that expects me to work, live and date within my means,”

Fresh-Code-4366 · 2023-07-31T17:38:17+00:00

I am a victim. I have PTSD and women like it🤣

Nihi1986 · 2023-07-31T18:06:51+00:00

I kinda am, though the way you put it sounds quite insulting... Not technically an incel but currently single (not my preference) and my past relationships all of them made me feel a bit like a victim, yeah.

Relative_Editor_2179 · 2023-07-31T22:57:35+00:00

I would say females have more of a victims mindset. Feminism is literally a victim movement

Ok-Bell3376 · 2023-08-05T10:38:17+00:00

I am a victim. I was born short, ugly and autistic. I was treated badly and bullied all throughout my childhood.

How many men here have a victim mindset?

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Title	How many men here have a victim mindset?
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Date	July 31, 2023 2:54 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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