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The difference a single chromosome makes

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January 28, 2023

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Title	The difference a single chromosome makes
Author	ScrimmyBingusTwo
Upvotes	67
Comments	110
Date	January 28, 2023 3:57 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/10nibhd/the_difference_a_single_chromosome_makes/
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Lmao why the FUCK are you playin right now? Lmao you actually think if tinder was a balanced ratio 50/50, that all the men would be able to get a girl or something lol. No you gaslighting ho. It wouldn't. 😂

All that would happen is that it would be an even MORE brutal blackpill where the bottom 80% of that 50% male ratio population will get to see as the entire 50% female ratio still ends up going after the top 20% of men (chads). How does it make any sense to you that an app that is pretty much centered around pictures (AKA showing how a person looks) will somehow be "fairer" to the male population if the gender ratios are balanced. Women control sex, and who they give it to (chads). Women are not going to automatically gain a sense of altruism for unattractive men and want to fuck them, just because they find out that there is an equal amount of men and women in a dating market. 😂😂😂 you are a literal dumbass, like I said before.

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The reason for this is that women don't have to spend a lot of time on dating apps to either find a LTR or get pumped-and-dumped by a guy (or many guys) above her looksmatch before giving up on finding a LTR on dating apps.

Plenty of us like casual sex with men so being 'pumped' is the goal not something to fear.

Bumble for example has (for months at a time) had a 50/50 gender ratio (but averages more like 45/55 with majority men.)

Most twenty something women for example have been on a dating app but a lot of people are scared away since stalkers, rape threats, threats of violence are more common against women on these apps.

According to a recent study in the US (2022, sourced on Statista) adults 59% of adult women and 50% of adult men men have used online dating at least once in search of an exclusive partner.

If all apps got rid of bots, crypto-shillers, stalkers, self-promoters, and those threatening rape or violence, I'd argue the gender ratio would be much more balanced on more than just Bumble. Problem is convincing companies to do that since dating apps are about making money not making people happy.

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is just consent

No, it’s absurdly high standards. Men have much more realistic standards. Ever wonder why every city has plenty of gay bars and zero lesbian bars? Because basically all women have absurdly high standards. And this could certainly be due to the higher sex drive men have from testosterone

plenty of women consent to men of all types

Define “plenty”. I’ve seen the dating app data, it’s a tiny minority

Most men are shorter than 5’10 in the US. Most are fat. Most are one paycheck away from homelessness. Most look either ‘average’ or ‘below’ average.

Yet most get laid.

It’s barely most and it won’t be much longer. Male sexlessness tripled in 10 years. 30% have zero sex. Half of the remaining 70% rarely have sex. So most men either don’t or rarely have sex

most get married

51% will be married before 30. That percentage is also rapidly dropping, in the 60s it was 90%. In a few decades it will probably be close to 0

Plenty of women are out here dating, having sex, getting married, getting into long term relationships.

Sure with a very small percentage of men lol

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No, it’s absurdly high standards.

No it's just consent.

You can't help who you are attracted to.

You cannot force yourself to feel desire where you don't.

It would be wrong and unethical to pretend to be interested in someone just to get laid.

It would be virtue-signaling to just date someone out of charity.

Define “plenty”. I’ve seen the dating app data, it’s a tiny minority

40% of relationships begin online, mostly on apps. That's expected to be 50% of all relationships by the end of the decade.

An overwhelming majority of men and women are getting laid (over 70% of adults regularly, over 80% semi-regularly).

The app data shows that most people are dating or having sex or in a relationship.

It’s barely most and it won’t be much longer. Male sexlessness tripled in 10 years.

It's less than that now. You're thinking of the studies that included the first two years of the pandemic.

Also, quality is better than quantity. Rates of rape are going down. Rates of people being pressured by their parents to date people they don't want are going down. This is a good thing. More encounters are consensual and enthusiastic (whether just a date or having sex).

51% will be married before 30. That percentage is also rapidly dropping, in the 60s it was 90%. In a few decades it will probably be close to 0

Your speculations and extrapolations are ridiculous and do not line up with the data or the trends.

Firstly, most people are married by age 30. An overwhelming majority of people are married by 40. And almost everyone by age 50 and 60.

I think you're also forgetting that living together out of wedlock has only been (somewhat) acceptable for one generation.

Some of those people who are in loving, committed relationships aren't interested in marriage but are staying together longer and reporting happiness.

Sure with a very small percentage of men lol

No, with most men. And most men still have at least seven different sexual partners within a lifetime, almost twice the average for women.

Only 2% of people will never date or have sex, and most of those are severe untreated agoraphobics or asexuals, most of whom are women.

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it’s just consent

No, it’s women having absurd standards

you can’t help who you are attracted to

Our opinions are fed to us by the media and internet. When women tell other women over and over again they should have way higher standards, eventually they believe it. Notice men almost never tell other men that. Weird huh?

by the end of the decade

By the end of the decade most men won’t be having any sex at all lol

before the pandemic

Nope those studies are from 2019. It isn’t better now.

Also, quality is better than quantity. Rates of rape are going down. Rates of people being pressured by their parents to date people they don’t want are going down. This is a good thing. More encounters are consensual and enthusiastic (whether just a date or having sex).

Agreed. This is irrelevant to women having absurd standards

No, with most men. And most men still have at least seven different sexual partners within a lifetime, almost twice the average for women.

It’s barely most and rapidly dropping. It won’t be most much longer, maybe another year or two

Only 2% of people will never date or have sex

We can’t really estimate this long term. Personally I think most young men these days will have sex once or twice but never end up in a long term relationship or married. And the data suggests this

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Our opinions are fed to us by the media and internet

While they do influence they are not the sole influence. Not to mention, there is a lot more diversity in looks that we see on tv and magazines now compared to even two decades ago.

When women tell other women over and over again they should have way higher standards, eventually they believe it

Usually people tell women to have higher standards in the aftermath of a legitimately low standard accommodation like accepting cheating or abuse. Women encouraging other women to have high standards usually comes on the tails of discussions of honoring consent or sharing equally in household tasks in shared residences when both people work, things like that. Though exceptions surely exist yes. Some people are shitty it's true.

We can’t really estimate this long term.

We can use deduction and trends though and actual data instead of hysterical speculation.

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You thinking most men or even a significant chunk of men have low standards is misandrist and misinformed. Again, plenty of men would never dream of pretending great interest where they have none or very little.

Yes there are some sleazeballs out there, they are not that common and not that smooth in many cases.

The stats that you look to for reassure like “most 30 year olds getting married” are just BARELY true

It's true and the percentage shoots up ever year after age 30.

You’re unwilling to admit any of this because you don’t like it either. And there’s no stopping it. In the end we’re all screwed.

I'm acknowledging the facts, not reactionary nonsense based on long-debunked OK Cupid blogs.

If you think it "screws everyone" not to pressure people to have sex or date those they don't want I don't know what to tell you. People pressured to be together ends up being torture for everyone. The person who agreed to date a guy she doesn't want is miserable, avoids sex, avoids his touch, resents his presence. He feels undesired, unwanted, and an afterthought. Sounds like a miserable existence.

Meanwhile if a man rejects a woman he doesn't want or a woman rejects a man or woman she doesn't want that leaves them both free to find someone who actually DOES desire them.

And most people find that multiple times in a lifetime. 98% of people do.

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Because a few handfuls of Redditors' personally submitted short-term review of their Tinder (which has one of the worst gender ratios of any of the top ten dating apps by the way) is not indicative of a broad trend or the average dude.

Someone thinks because he and his friends aren't getting laid that his predicament is common, or reflective of the reality for people throughout their lives (or even two years of adulthood).

It's incredibly rare not to have sex before age 18. It's incredibly rare not to have any dates before age 30 or to not have one or more relationships before the age of 40.

I'm not saying it doesn't suck for those people or that their stories aren't real. It does. Most of those personal stories aren't faked. But the solution isn't pressuring women (or anyone) to date those they don't want. And the problem is not very common.

Sex isn't a right. Dating isn't a rate. It's just very common. Pedestrian. And happens to almost everyone, some later in life or less frequently than others.

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