Why do men still marry?

warramite · 2023-10-28T22:29:44+00:00

Obviously cause they're bluepilled

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-10-28T22:26:53+00:00

It’s because of basically black pill, they’re just too stupid to realize it.

Some washed up mid to late 20s woman with a body count of 50 at her age decides to now give Chad treatment to a beta buxxx, inexperienced moron who hasn’t been laid in months, if not years. She knows he’s desperate and exploits it, and all he knows is he’s now getting consistent sex.

One pussy crumb to any of these guys and she’s got him eating out the palm of her hand. Too bad once he sells his soul by agreeing to marriage the sex will stop, as now she’s gotten everything she wanted and more

kukkle1111 · 2023-10-28T22:19:58+00:00

Or am I being too pessimistic?

Nope. Not even close.

AndyBlazeX · 2023-10-29T01:44:35+00:00

They are pussy whipped into it. Simple as that. I hate to say this but too many blue pilled men think with their penis and not their brain. I can say that as a man. Once they get the pussy, that's all they care about and women know that. They use it as leverage to trap the man into wedding vows then once it's a wrap it's too late.

I'm really glad my father was actually red pilled asf and taught me from a young age to never fall into this trap. I'm 28 and I'll NEVER get married in this lifetime.

bleachpilled · 2023-10-29T07:19:31+00:00

Because, believe it or not, a lot of men still think the system works or because of family pressure to get married.

norihitodesuga · 2023-10-29T15:09:51+00:00

because dealing with the bullshit of life as a team is easier than doing it solo

Aromatic_Ad5473 · 2023-10-29T01:06:51+00:00

Here’s a life pro tip, happy, loved, supported people who share the financial, domestic, and emotional load of their marriages, don’t get divorced.

Jazzlike_Worth_9908 · 2023-10-29T05:45:17+00:00

My girlfriend makes more than me so if one will get alimony it's me

Eyesofmalice · 2023-10-29T13:25:59+00:00

Not all men are black pillers, I’m sure many of them love their parte nets and are love din return.

Exciting-Salary-8344 · 2023-10-29T13:37:15+00:00

Guys I have a question, do you think a man over35 can still have a relationship with a woman without getting married?

Mauf066 · 2023-10-29T16:07:18+00:00

I don't want to, but that's exactly the way I see it. I guess the best counterargument I see is that despite being miserable, married people are still less miserable than most of us here.

NumerousTheory5735 · 2023-10-30T04:13:36+00:00

Pussy whipped. I look down on married men tbh.

symerewooods · 2023-10-29T04:43:10+00:00

Its not because they are blue pilled. Yes majority of bluepillers are cucked in their marriages just looking r/DeadBedrooms would show you. But the reason men marry and still do is because you have consistent access to sex(if you are not at least HTN). Blackpillers should in fact get married but the tricky part is avoiding the facts you listed and also finding someone who is not a virgin and looks decently good is very hard nowadays.

If you do find a girl who is a virgin and looks good don't even think you have a chance as you are fighting for the same pool that chads and chadlites wants to settle down with.

Edit: when I say looks good, I mean in a global scale, just because you're biology thinks the people of your race/ethnicity look good, that doesn't make it true

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-10-29T03:17:08+00:00

Kids. Plus they love their woman and she wants to get married so he does it to make her happy because that makes him happy

tig_shot · 2023-10-29T01:44:40+00:00

There's plenty of good women out there, don't let those statistics bum you out too much.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2023-10-28T22:55:52+00:00

You have a 60% of getting divorced and losing everything

No you don't, where did you hear that?

If you do get divorced, you will probably pay alimony,

Also not true. Alimony only occurs about 10% of the time.

You can lose full custody of your children at any time if she decides to take them and there is nothing you can do about it.

She would have to demonstrate some danger, you can fight it in court, and it is unrelated to whether or not you're married.

If you manage to avoid those, then you'll probably be forced to accept an "open relationship" or dead bedroom at some point

Oh i get it, you're taking the piss now. Good one.

Edit: look at these downvotes for pointing out facts!

EulenWatcher · 2023-10-28T23:47:52+00:00

Divorce risks greatly depend on the stats of the couple in question. For people who are educated, employed the stats is around ~30%. For all first marriages it’s around 40%. So the majority of couples who marry for the first time stay together.

Then the minority of these couples have cheating or dead bedroom situation - you can check the stats for it. Of course, if you want to claim the stats are false and all couples you know have DB problem or cheating, I’m not sure what I can tell you.

Few divorces end up with alimony and although men are disadvantaged in terms of custody, they still can visit and actively participate in their kids’ lives.

There are enough women who are not obese or high n-count. Plus, men usually do match their partner’s stats.

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-28T22:43:11+00:00

Because if you marry a woman with a job, you'll just have to pay for any kids you're abandoning which is fair enough.

You only have to 'keep' a woman after divorce if you kept her at home during the marriage, like a fucking moron.

xBTx · 2023-10-29T11:54:10+00:00

Or am I being too pessimistic

Yes. The amount of cynicism in the replies is approaching mental illness

RopeorDope1 · 2023-10-28T22:54:30+00:00

Because the world doesn't revolve around you and your narcissistic delusion. Silly.

I think pessimistic is an understatement. You're speaking as if people don't have their own ability to assess risk, reward, and so on. Divorce rate has been falling for decades, and things like prenuptial agreements exist. All of this information is readily available. When are you going to educate yourself?

lighthub · 2023-10-29T15:10:06+00:00

If marriage isn’t for you then don’t get married. Other adult men have their choices, and I’m sure they know the risks and rewards. People get married everyday, nobody is going to stop doing what they really want to do.

Not every man is bitter about women, people got to stop projecting your life onto others

Fofotron_Antoris · 2023-10-29T15:14:17+00:00

Its because of Cultural Programming. Have you ever noticed how all sorts of media from Disney animated movies, cartoons, movies, series literature and whatever else generally ends with a marriage ? That kind of thing influences the average person.

Plus its a sort of cultural inertia from the last generations when there wasn't no-fault divorce, infidelity was harshly punished and marriages were generally for life, as in the vows you make during the ceremony actually meant something. "Happily ever after" only happens when the other party isn't incetivized by the State to break the contract and search for something better and thus has to put in the work in their relationship.

I do think things are slowly changing, millenials and zoomers have much lower rates of marriage and reproduction than the previous ones. Men are slowly becoming aware of how privileged women are in this society compared to them, and how the juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore, thanks to information sharing in the internet.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-10-29T18:55:49+00:00

men are too logical for love and this world.

Chad or not ;p

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-10-30T09:10:35+00:00

Do many men get married nowadays?

Title	Why do men still marry?
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Date	October 28, 2023 10:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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