Advice needed

Boomhower113 · 2024-07-17T23:32:35+00:00

Beat her to the courthouse. That gives you an advantage.

Find any lawyer first thing in the morning and get him to file.

The fact that she posted that shit is telling. But, I can’t believe a judge is going to believe random online strangers that she can’t bring in to testify.

captainchippsixx · 2024-07-14T17:28:46+00:00

This was all planned and orchestrated by your wife. She knows it’s not true. There is no way back for you. Move forward fast on divorce. She doesn’t love you or respect you. There may be another guy or girl in the background you don’t even know about.

Don’t sit back and let her dictate the flow. Get a lawyer and lock down assets.

Independent_Owlz · 2024-07-13T15:59:38+00:00

Tread lightly. Next thing you know she’ll be filing false police reports.

dpatron · 2024-07-13T15:02:56+00:00

In my experience the judge over my divorce lowered my child support and found her in contempt because of all her fuckery with not paying the material bills and her Facebook posts trashing me thru social media directly to our friends and family. I paid 1500$ for 3 kids, I should paid 2500 with the amount of money I make. Paid her 30 k out of my 401k and not a penny to alimony. A good lawyer and no BS judge paid me back. I never posted, text or voicemail a single thing to her. Patience and silence. Judges hate childish tit for tat and social media games.

Gattsama · 2024-07-13T13:42:05+00:00

More than likely, it's all BS. She's just looking for a socially acceptable reason to file for divorce, likley already cheating, and wants to start a smear campaign against you (do you have kids).

Even if she doesn't have any machiavellian intentions, you can not change a women's mind of feelings with either logic or reason, as they were never based on either to start with.

Just calmly explain that these women are lying, you don't know why, and she is free to believe whatever she chooses. Then watch and wait. If she wants a divorce, there's nothing you can do about it. If the truth later comes out: she's cheating, asking for money, starting a smear campaign, etc... then all the more reason to let her go and give her the divorce she is asking for.

Sorry man, but once things reach this level, you have to understand she has been thinking about this for months already, if not years.

GoldCanvas · 2024-07-13T11:55:49+00:00

Ouch. Alright, then hire lawyer. File the necessary complaints. Divorce. Move on.

Heavy_Guitar_4848 · 2024-07-13T11:37:29+00:00

Get one of your chick friends to call them out or side message them

PapayaOk4326 · 2024-07-13T03:56:30+00:00

Talk to her. Why she think you’ve cheated? She don’t trust you. How could you trust her then? I believe she wouldn’t suppose you’re cheating if she herself hasn’t ever thought of it

ADivorcedGuy · 2024-07-13T03:54:06+00:00

I am sorry for you man, but on the flip side, you are dodging a bullet, if that is what she thinks of you now, it will only get worse. Hire a lawyer immediately and share this story and the screenshot with them.

Cheap_House8696 · 2024-07-13T03:35:23+00:00

Man that's nuts in the end it means absolutely nothing

TheBoyBand · 2024-07-13T03:30:26+00:00

This sounds like a setup and the excuse, the smear campaign, she is projecting her cheating, Im almost willing to bet lol.

Ask her to go through her phone and update us lol

Betteroffalone1111 · 2024-07-13T03:04:40+00:00

She probably had her friends fake post to give u a bad name, I would have someone that u know that has social media contact the admin of that group and report your wife for false accusations

Title	Advice needed
Author	RockyFlop69
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	July 13, 2024 2:54 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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