Any of you lads have boys under the age of 7 yrs old that often mention the new boyfriend, the guy that’s essentially replaced you as the hulk, the shark in the pool, their partner building the forts out of sheets - the realization that there’s a new Hero that’s captured your own offsprings attention.

Tell me what’s left, merely surviving? Living a good life to prove what? You’ve already lost the greatest gift life will give you and you’ll never ever get to replace those moments that time your boys spent with another guy, at their young age - just keep paying child support, getting by and acting as if you’re actually doing better. I get it that’s what we have to do, and what society friends and family tell us but let’s really call it what it is - we lost everything, everyone’s trying to keep us from going south and losing are shit. the real hero’s fighting to keep food on the table and hold our tears back ultimately to watch some other dude play our saved game