I have been dating a girl for 6 months, it's my first dating experience after the divorce was finalized a year and a half ago. She is sweet, supportive, and fun and became serious quickly. My 2 daughters love her too. But I have seen some self-destructive qualities in her, which came to a climax last weekend when she drank too much, disrespected me, and caused a scene. I was the only one there (thankfully), but It really upset me. I told her I want to break up for now until her life is more in order. She begged for forgiveness and promises she will work to improve. I don't know what to do and would appreciate some advice. I have serious doubts about her now, but I also have seen some really great things that I really don't want to throw away. Anyone deal with this before? What was your thought process?