I’m in the throes of our divorce etc, but being Christmas, both our lawyers are on leave etc.

In the meantime to help me smile I got onto a dating app (a huge part of our relationship breakdown for me personally was a total lack of intimacy or conversation, both important to me).

A week after being on the app I got matched to this stunner that admittedly looked vaguely familiar.

Turns out, 3 years ago I’d bought her and her colleagues a coffee as her employer was a client of mine. She’s not forgotten me since, and she’s also divorced etc.

I’m not getting too involved or excited but to have someone WANT me feels so good. The touch, the eye contact, the conversation, the company, the morning texts… it’s made the whole process so much easier - to have this source of connection and positivity.

Admittedly it’s also been a huge confidence boost. Id normally not even talk to a woman of her calibre, and to have her want me is immense for me.

Just happy and had to share where I’m anonymous, given I can’t tell anyone else in person!

She’s got dark brown hair, intoxicating brown eyes, a physical confidence that drives me wild… we’re both thinking “let’s just see how this goes, kids come first” but it’s adult fun and we’re both enjoying the company.

Life goes on!