If my wife follows through with a divorce after 14years (read my other posts. The back and forth and back and forth). I wanna know what visiting the kids will be like?

She said I can come visit every day which to me seems absurd. I’m literally gonna be here except to sleep here?? What the fuck.

But anyway, is it hard or gut wrenching to come back from your single person home to visit your kids?

Do you try integrate, but can’t keep up with the day to day happenings?

Do you lose interest in trying to keep up daily, and instead just accept a few days a fortnight?

Do you lie there sad and lonely?

When do you finally think “this is actually alright” living alone, having gotten all your furniture, bed, cooking utensils, everything… like you’re a bachelor again.