Defending from character assassination

dogsrule2019 · 2022-11-28T17:28:23+00:00

She likely cheated or had one in waiting and is trying to transfer her guilt to you. She may even actually convince herself it’s true. And yes, talk to your lawyer.

Jbr74 · 2022-11-28T17:55:19+00:00

Screw, the high road.

My ex tried to character-assassinate me using corner-thug tactics, so I flipped the script and went 007 on her. 3+ years ago, and I have zero regrets about doing it. I also had a lot of hard evidence, and all she had was "she said."

I posted it all online, scorch earthed her, and exposed her for the liar she was.

Had I "taken the high road," I would have looked like the person she tried to paint me as.

Screw suing her, the justice system is a joke, and I'd rather have my reputation than a few bucks, which you likely will never get anyway. I'll take a win in the court of public opinion and court of my friends and acquaintances (when it comes to slander) than an actual courtroom.

soontobesolo · 2022-11-28T17:11:56+00:00

If it's untrue you can sue her for libel or slander. Ask your lawyer about this.

And keep documenting everything.

captainchippsixx · 2022-11-29T00:26:35+00:00

Don’t take the high road. It never works out. I say put the sun light on divorce and let every one know why you are divorcing.

WartimeDad · 2022-11-29T04:26:26+00:00

I took the high road and still do. It’s not an easy road to take. Im glad I can look back and see my character and strength.

The idea is that she can play in the mud and she will absolutely drag you into it and make everything muddy. If you take the high road, then EVENTUALLY (talking years), people will see her for what she truly is.

Delete her from social media. It’s not healthy for you. Ignore literally everything she says! ZERO truth will come out of her face. It’s all just bull shit.

My ex lied to coworkers and friends and everyone she knew. Im every terrible thing a person can be. I used to think, “I am whatever you say I am, if I wasn’t then why would you say I am?”

But the fact is that it splits all your friends. If you have an acquaintance that actually believes her and supports her, then they showed their true colors and let them be dead to you. Fuck all those people. I gave up on colleagues and friends that “sided” with her.

Years later I am certain that most of them have figured it out by now. But I don’t care. Good riddance.

Live a life free of the mud and drama and bull shit. That’s her world, not yours. Focus on positive things like exercise and making new friends and getting into hobbies. You are not defined but what this spiteful ex SAYS. You are defined by what you do. If you get into that mud, well then she will have won. People will see you as the spiteful abusive dude and you’ll start validating her.

Take that high road my man. You’ll see eventually that anyone who actually knows you will come to see her as absolutely insane because what she says is so clearly in conflict with who they know you to be.

You got this. Just delete that social media and keep your head high.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2022-11-29T17:44:14+00:00

Very normal. Unfortunately, feminism has allowed women to make any accusations they want against their husbands/boyfriends without any accountability. Oh it's a false accusation? It's ok, please try and not do it again.

I was also falsely accused of rape. I had pictures/texts of us holding hands, her saying "I love you", but none of that mattered. I had to go to trial, spend a fortune, to prove my innocence.

#Feminism #Equality (Sarcasm)

Small_Quarter_3673 · 2022-11-28T22:11:03+00:00

Why is she trying to do that? Is there something you are not giving her?

bigtallblacknbald · 2022-11-29T15:42:45+00:00

“What legal resource do I have?”

This is a perfect question for your lawyer.

Title	Defending from character assassination
Author	softinvest
Upvotes	13
Comments	13
Date	November 28, 2022 5:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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