Don’t know what to do

StandardButPoor500 · 2025-09-22T14:22:49+00:00

I think you are correct, she is trying to get something on you.

Be careful.

Also, consider what kind of benefit false accusations can give her. Because if she can't record anything of legal value, maybe she can invent something. All depends on the local law, of course, but some places, I've been told, are pretty stupid in their effort to "believe women".

Maybe also record your interactions if it's legal, of course. It'll give you certain degree of protection when she starts telling other people what happened.

Accurate-Pilot-5666 · 2025-09-21T06:13:27+00:00

I've journaled for decades, but my lawyer said that nothing in my journal is admissible in court.

RespectInevitable479 · 2025-09-20T15:33:47+00:00

Stay separated be on your best behavior

Pleasant-Mechanic-49 · 2025-09-20T06:24:38+00:00

Yes it is called Silver Bullet Divorce. Google it. In shortit means she has mental issues and she will fill for domestic violence during the divorce so she win more during divorce like custody bc u are too violent or fill for fault-based divorce. Record her as well anytime you meet her and stay 10feet away at lol time and bring a witness if u can when u see her

Acceptable_Piano4809 · 2025-09-20T06:06:07+00:00

Dude she’s gathering “evidence” that will just prove whatever narrative she’s trying to build. This is ecil shit she’s doing, my ex did the same from the phone I paid for. She tricked me into giving it back to her when I took it because she ignored me, and the minute it was hooked up she told me “thank god I didn’t lose and of the evidence I have” … I had no idea! Women are evil like this, if making you look bad benefits them, they’ll make you look bad and won’t care it’s immoral or dishonest because as long as they’re doing it, it’s not wrong. They can separate the two…. ME v not me….its universally true they play by different rules

Paddle_Pedal_Puddle · 2025-09-20T02:42:01+00:00

If you are in a two-party consent state, it is illegal and you should inform her.

If not, start recording everything she does. What’s good for the goose…

TimelyResearch1702 · 2025-09-20T02:29:00+00:00

Which state you are in? It's illegal in about half.

Title	Don’t know what to do
Author	AdAlert2534
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	September 20, 2025 12:17 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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