Just sharing in to the void. So together for 17 years, married 12 years, no kids. I worked, she didn't. Separated Oct '21, I moved into my own rental Jan '22, I filed Feb '22, divorced Nov '22 and sold house Dec '22.

So everything I cared about was out of the house 2 years ago. But she has dropped off large boxes of crap at my door x4 now. The first one, I was like whatever. Mostly old anniversary stuff and hate notes (eg the first Claddagh ring I gave her with a note saying 'maybe your meaningless promises will mean something next time.') But a lot of crap, which I threw away or gave to good will.

The second was more of the same. The 3rd was really small, just some cat toys and our custom coasters. And I though that was that. Happens every 3-5 months, the package is small, nothing left to dump, etc. Due to landlord issues I moved at the end of Nov '23.

BUT THEN... She dropped another large box of crap off (mostly Xmas stuff, a TON of old engagement pictures, and misc) at some point a few days ago at my old rental (she didn't know I moved, and still might not. I'm sure as fuck not giving her my new address).

Don't know, and don't care why she keeps doing this. I am 100% no contact! I have never responded to these 'deliveries.' I pick through what I might want, and trash/goodwill the rest. It's like I'm her personal trash disposal person :) The stuff she just dropped off, has been in her position for 2 years!! And 1 year since selling the house?!? But now for some reason needs to be dumped at my (old) place?? And this is after 3 other / separate dumps?!?

I have 2.5 years of spousal support left then 100% free. I am choosing to look at this as an early Xmas gift. The gift of peace 🙏 Because I no longer have to deal with, support, or interact with crazy. Happy holidays divorce_men!