heartbroken/dad

RideATX · 2022-09-23T18:03:15+00:00

Hang in there man. Most of us have been through what you're going through, and it does get better. I know it seems dark, but trust me, you're going to be okay. Your kids will adjust, your heart will heal, and believe it or not when you come out the other side you will be happier, have more income and a lot more sex. Just put your head down and survive then start building your self back up. This is a marathon not a sprint, work on yourself every day. Good luck brother.

kmills7479 · 2022-09-23T20:28:31+00:00

So today makes two weeks of being surrounded by the police at a Dr appointment for my son along with the police was DCF telling me that they're taking my child so naturally I fought them because I had no clue to wats going on only to later find out threw my attorney that my wife daughters for whom I only met once over facetime alleged abuse from me against them idk how these things are possible but now my entire life and sons life is being brought into questions all because I refuse to continuously pay for children who aren't mines so my wife and her mother came up with the bright idea to have these charges file on me my son is in foster care he cry's to come home it's just crazy but thank you guys and kmills isn't a alias it's my real name and causing harm to children isn't something I take pleasure in so to have this happen to me is taking its toll money is the root of all evil and I'll give up every dollar I have to clear my name and have my son returned back to me thank you guys for listening

GoldPotential6298 · 2022-09-23T18:54:03+00:00

Two years post here….single dad of two amazing little girls. It gets better with time. I promise you. Just take each day as it comes and focus on taking care of yourself so you can take care of those around you. The gas mask on an airplane analogy….out yours on first so you can help others after.

mrk177 · 2022-09-23T18:53:35+00:00

It’s a constant roller coaster of emotions. It does get better. It helps to talk it out. I wish you the best feel free to send me a chat if you want to talk.

whatskeeping · 2022-09-23T18:36:25+00:00

Keep your head up. Take it slow and make good decisions.

playerknowmore · 2022-09-23T20:16:21+00:00

When she turns her love off you have to turn your emotions off. You can't get her love back, but self-respect is something you earn. Most men after the discussion you recently had think being vulnerable is the way back into her heart. Women say they are leaving for something you didn't do, but that's just a narrative she uses as a justification. It's normally about something she wants or did.

I know you probably feel like shit, but she doesn't deserve to see that. She needs to see strong and focused you. You have to build a platform of respect. You can't demand she love you, but respect is something everyone should demand from everyone.

SnooDucks2052 · 2022-09-23T19:01:20+00:00

Talk about it bro…

HorrorAd1946 · 2022-09-23T20:14:38+00:00

Kmills(your alias for reddit) I don't know your story, but I am reminded of perhaps an old wives tale, that many hands make light work, or the more you share the more that help carry the burden. If you choose not to share that itself is okay and your right.

I understand the darkness, the pain and burden that comes along with reaching this site. It's a dual edge sword. One that offers others that have experienced many things on their journey to offer advice, have emphaty with situations we deal or dealing with.

In the end however, this truly is something only can truly be gotten through on your knees with God. He is always here to help, may not be in the way man asks or sees, but in a way that is always best for our walk. I always suggest, if you have the means, reach out to get professional help as well to talk(face to face) with. If and when you are ready, I think you will find many that may help and encourage you. Best wishes with your brokenness.

chimps20 · 2022-09-23T21:08:22+00:00

Broham we all go through it in what way or the other. When you are ready we will be here.

Fuck the system

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2022-09-24T00:25:14+00:00

Welcome to the club!

We're happy to have you!

You will get through this - just like the rest of us! :-)

Title	heartbroken/dad
Author	kmills7479
Upvotes	13
Comments	17
Date	September 23, 2022 5:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/xm44wj/heartbrokendad/
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