I’ll just leave this here…

Ethereal-Mage · 2023-10-23T17:56:45+00:00

This is a compilation of separate studies that favor the notion of women cheating more. They all surveyed particular groups as individuals on yes or no questions where some will be honest and some won't. They surveyed men and women about themselves and the other gender based on personal situations and on subjective opinion. I didn't cheat because im a man, I cheated because it was easy and I could just like I lied to my wife and still have just because i could. Not sure how who does what more or less has anything to do with divorce as we're all capable and we'd all be lying if we said we never at the very least thought about it.

That said, if the study says YOUNGER woman and women with better and more self sufficient careers and independence are more likely to cheat then why do we men as a whole look at them like the holy grail while lowering the "market value" of a middle aged woman with life experience and morals simply because of age and that she might have had someone else's children? Most groups I'm in say to get you a younger woman and steer clear the woman like my ex but this study says the younger more independent woman are less loyal and self controlled. What are we actually doing or trying to prove here?

Reflog1791 · 2023-10-23T16:00:35+00:00

Women have always cheated at the same rate as men, married or not. The narrative that men cheat more is accepted because most men are not proud that they’ve been cheated. Married women on the other hand get a juicy divorce settlement no matter what. Of course they are proud to explain why they are entitled to the cash.

Women are less likely to cheat if they are trying to bait you into marriage.

suwifiescubana · 2023-10-23T16:35:08+00:00

Woman cheat more and they always have, because they have countless more opportunities to do so.

sperry55th · 2023-10-23T19:33:41+00:00

Propinquity has a great deal to do with it. The exposures to temptation via the work place, little leagues, gym, PTA, social groups, LDR's, Is far greater than times past. Adultery being normalized by the entertainment and leisure time industry has played a role. The shift of demographics from the agrarian rural concentration to the cities. Changes in our value systems and attitudes. Our schools. A multitude of reasons.

There are multivariable components that contribute to the problem.

When people relearn the joy of serving, and securing the good of others, mainly their family, we will all be better off.

HerbEverstanks · 2023-10-23T17:53:32+00:00

(Personal anecdote), it's also easier for the woman to cheat if the man is at work earning money to afford you the ability to cheat while she was at home with no job and no kids. She was a stay at home leech. You can trip and fall on dicks, but eventually the truth will cum out. (Stains on the couch)

jjfishers · 2023-10-24T11:43:33+00:00

Shocker

Title	I’ll just leave this here…
Author	21YearsofHell
Upvotes	32
Comments	33
Date	October 23, 2023 3:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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