This may be off topic, and I hope I don’t get banned but I have an honest question for the group

Little background, my wife cheated on me, I caught the other guy coming over to my house when I was at work through our ring cameras. She said she wanted a divorce a year ago, but the whole time she was having an affair, lying, deceiving and ultimately disrespecting me the whole time. She has “fallen in love” with the other guy, who has 3 kids of his own and a long term girlfriend.

She moved out and we split our time with the kids, filed for divorce, so that’s currently in the process

I feel a freedom being away from her and not having to see or talk to her at all, any communication is through texts for kids necessity. The question is, I am ok without her, but it has been a while since I’ve been intimate with a women. I almost feel guilty but I want to go out and meet women just for the simple fact of having just a friend with benefits. Not even looking for a relationship..what does everyone think?