I’ve read the solid posts about “the list” and digital recorders. The recommended voice recorders are good but I’ll lose all leverage I have if my stbx sees it because she’ll know exactly what it is and war will begin. Does anyone recommend something that fools the most perceptive of people that I can carry on my person. Right now we cohabitate, raising the kids but I’m working on getting some protection proof to disprove the crap she has promised to throw at me should I divorce her. I have to catch her when she becomes emotionally unhinged and says things I’m sure she’d regret to hear in court. If it falls out of my pocket when I sit on a coach the war will start. Any recommendations?