My wife has diagnosed BPD, Bipolar 2, autism, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome and probably others I'm forgetting. She's not well and hasn't been well for a long time. Her most recent episode started in may and resulted in silent treatment in the most literal and extreme sense.

In July she said she wants a divorce. A couple weeks later she said she lawgered up. A week later our sons (8 and 9) heard her on a call with her APN talking about how terrible her life is). I told her, among other things, that I knew of the silver bullet method that manipulative women use during divorce and that I'd use every ability I have to defend against it and prosecute it for false complaints or similar.

We haven't even filed yet and she used it today. She took pictures in my office and finally noticed I had set up a camera. I've caught her on 10 different occasions snooping and taking photos of personal things. I called her out on it. It triggered her. We had a verbal argument about it in front of our 8 year old...and she called the cops. While here, she had a panic attack.and damn near was sent to hospital.

A year ago she was loving life and calling me her soul mate. 4 months ago we were still grieving the death of my father while she continued calling me her soul mate. Today, she calls the fucking cops.

I don't hate her. I feel sorry for her. She's broken beyond repair but I'll be damned if she takes me and my son's down with her.