My STBXW hasn't made any income since 2018, and has been a SAHM. I filed for divorce when she started to get abusive and weird (talking to other men).

Now, she's demanding alimony, child support (4 kids), more than 50/50 custody, and claim to the house, and that I buy her a lawyer. Previously she said she didn't want any of our debts or assets, and wanted 50/50 kids. I'm pretty sure she has people in her circle telling her that she deserves all of this from me because she put so much work into our family.

Has anyone ever divorced a SAHM? How did that go with assets and custody?