So the good news, we have an agreement. It’s far from ideal, but it will crease stability. Basically getting an 8/6 custody split and I end up paying the mortgage instead of child support and custody, but gave up equity in the house. Leaves me with nothing but debt at the moment, but I’ll recover. I was feeling good that we actually agreed to something, but keep second guessing myself.

Anyone out there paying the ex’s mortgage? One thing we didn’t figure out is what happens if she dies while I am on the title, and what happens if she wants to sell.